Is it just me 或者 does everyone the have a boyfriend\girlfiend?

I am 25 and never have had a boyfriend EVER. So believe me I feel the exact same way 你 do. I have had cousins younger than me who have had them, 或者 known way younger people who have had them. So trust me I know exactly how 你 feel- but these people who are telling us that it will happen and that its not that big of a deal are probably right. I know its hard, but I guess we just have to have patience..more of it.

P.S. My BFF has had a boyfriend and has broken up with him 更多 than once, so I have seen the downside to having a relationship. It takes work. She was crying and I felt bad for her.

Who honestly cares about getting a gf 或者 bf immediately? >.> 你 wanna try to get a decent significant other and not rush into a relationship. I am single but I will not rush into a relationship. I rather take my time and find a girl I like. I will not just 日期 anyone.

I could honestly care less if I got a boyfriend. I don't even want one. No it's not just you. Other people don't have them and don't go to the rush of having one.

Please don't beat yourself up for that reason. I am sure you'll find someone someday- it takes time and effort. :)

Yes, 你 are the only single person on the entire site. And life is "so unfair" just because 你 aren't in a relationship? Well, boo-freaking-hoo! 加入 the rest of us who have our hearts attached to our electronics and wi-fi connection. As for me, I am currently in the best relationship of my life with my Xbox.

not having a boyfriend 或者 a girlfriend doesnt make 你 any less awesome then anyone else.

no... I've never been in a relationship before and I don't feel jealous

I don't either don't worry, in real life 或者 online. I'm one of those teenagers who isn't interested in dating just yet (that doesn't come around much nowadays so we're special) XD

Oh, heck no! I've never dated anyone, and maybe never will.
But it doesn't bother me too much.

Oh my gosh, are 你 really this bad at using your brain.

20 years old. Never had a boyfriend. Never wanted one.

Nope. I'm 24 (almost) and I have never had a GF. Does this make me a loser? Dumb? 或者 stupid? NO

I personally have no interest in finding one. Now of course it's nothing against them, just that I just DON'T. I don't want marriage 或者 kids so I'm good.

I may have a friend who's a girl 或者 whatever, but still. I'm not into the whole "romance" thing.

Why are 你 jumping on the bandwagon? Who gives a fck, if everyone dated their grandma would 你 do it too?
>_>
Probably.

[my perspective]

boyfriend and girlfriend is just a title... doesn't mean nothing 由 itself. the 爱情 is what counts.

if 你 have a different BF/GF every 月 then who cares? it isn't an accomplishment. got one that you've been with for years and plan a future? then society could learn a thing 或者 two from you.

quality over quantity, and the right moment over right now.

if a relationship is just for 显示 then the only thing it's good for is other peoples entertainment. not your own fulfillment.

don't go looking for a relationship just because it's what everyone is getting into... that's how gangs spread and drugs kill.

just because somebody's in a relationship doesn't mean they can't feel alone. they're can be just feeling alone with benefits.

i'd pick a good movie, a snug bed, and my 最喜爱的 snack over a "maintenance" relationship. but i'd choose to share my 最喜爱的 movie, snug bed, and 最喜爱的 snack with somebody i love.

if 你 want to be an honest person, then don't live in a fake relationship.

when you're tallying up the scores, remember that when they've had 更多 relationships, you've had less breakups.

and finally, just because you're alone, doesn't necessarily mean it's a bad thing.

i do not and will not have a boyfriend

there are a lot of people alone and that's cool

it's okay to be in a relationship

it's okay to not be in a relationship

it's okay to want a relationship

it's okay to not want a relationship

everyone should stop shitting on each other (◡‿◡✿)

I am 29 and have never had a boyfriend. I feel jealous of my sister and my cousins cause they all pretty much have boyfriends and 或者 are married with children. It's quite depressing. I guess part of it is my fault because I don't put myself out there like them. But it's hard for me, I am quite shy and have a very low self esteem so it makes it harder for me to get a boyfriend.

Never had a boyfriend, and I'm okay with that.

I don't.

It's fine to not be in one, but if 你 want one get out there and get one. Talk to new people, maybe you'll like one of them. If 你 don't want a relationship that's fine, you're still awesome. I've never been in a relationship, I've never wanted one.

I don't have a boyfriend … I'm so depressing …I am so lonely and so sad

There's heaps of folks out there who are single, don't worry!

Things will happen with time, don't be in a relationship just for the hell of it.

But yeah, don't worry, I know the feeling, everyone I know is in a relationship except for me, but it's all goods! Single life is pretty sweet x)

That's the same 问题 as mine.. I keep wondering why everyone I know has a boyfriend/ girlfriend... But I guess, it works fine for me because I 爱情 giving relationship 建议 and a voice tells me that I won't give amazing 建议 if i'm in a relationship.

Plus, I only like fictional boys. xD

If 你 want one, 你 can 加入 this club and put yourself out there

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