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I need help with my 'friend'...

I started being nice to this girl during the beginning of school, and she's starting to drive me crazy. She's Christian, 你 see (I have nothing against Christians, but she's the bad Christian stereotype). She's extremely homophobic and isn't okay with any other religions. I have a friend who's lesbian and I'm not Christian, so it's hard to hang out with her without offending her 或者 being offended.
She's an idiot, as well. She's just completely stupid. She keeps trying to convert me, and it's driving me crazy.
How do I tell her I don't want to be friends? I don't want to hurt he feelings, but we keep arguing and she won't leave me alone!

Again, I have nothing against Christians. Two of my best 老友记 are Christians. This certain girl is just extremely narrow-minded and uses her religion as an excuse.

Thanks for all the helpful answers, guys. I really appreciate it. :)

-SilverFey- posted 一年多以前

-SilverFey- posted 一年多以前

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Book-Freak said:

Well, I would sit her down and explain to her that whilst she's a nice person, it's quite upsetting for 你 that she is so pushy with her 查看 on religion and the sexuality and so could she agree that 你 and her just won't talk about those subjects because they are wrecking the friendship. Also explain that whilst 你 understand why she wants to convert 你 (to her, she's trying to do a good thing) 你 don't want to be converted and 你 find it offensive that she doesn't respect your personal views.

posted 一年多以前

Thanks. I think I'll try that.

-SilverFey- posted 一年多以前

dooodle said:

Try just telling her off, and saying she needs to accept 你 for who 你 are and your religion, 或者 else you're afraid 你 just can't be friends.

posted 一年多以前

LocalArtistist said:

Do every possible sin 你 can, and if 你 cant do some say 你 did them. Then when she tells 你 to go to confession (or something along those lines) say "But the devil isn't allowed on holy ground." with the best smirk 你 have. 或者 simply yell at her 下一个 time she tries to convert you. "Bitch please, ain't no body got time for dat!"

posted 一年多以前

DerpThatHerp said:

say to the Christian girl
"the power of Christ compels 你 !!! ... TO FUCK OFF!"
Don't judge me, it's my brother who wrote this.

posted 一年多以前

Your brother's funny. xD

-SilverFey- posted 一年多以前

Agreed XD

BlondLionEzel posted 一年多以前

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Lennys_Girl posted 一年多以前

sieluvzsoul said:

JUS SAY
"I'm sorry but I dnt think we can be 老友记 anymore"
O and srry bout the 锦标 I dunno y my kindle did tht

posted 一年多以前

Max277 said:

Just be straight up with her.
Tell her your sorry but 你 can't be friends.

posted 一年多以前

LovableXNerd said:

Just tell her how 你 feel. Tell her that 你 don't like it that she is so judgmental. I go 由 the bible and I know for sure that god ask 你 to not judge other people and to be humble. Tell her that she is not going 由 the bible 由 judging people. And that if she cannot say anything nice to people 或者 stop pushing what she believes onto 你 then that 你 can't be friends. But if 你 are willing change then maybe we can stay 老友记 :)

posted 一年多以前

lzzie said:

你 just tell her. Sometimes 你 have got to stop thinking about hurting someone else's feelings and focus on yourself. If she's driving 你 crazy, let her know. Maybe 你 don't have to stop being friends, but 你 can simply explain to her how she offends your friends, etc. Be diplomatic! ^.^

posted 一年多以前

thetankmoment said:

I can honestly say this was an issue for me, too, except it wasn't religious. I would just ignore them (Or try to)

posted 一年多以前

Whirlwind586 said:

Just tell her. 你 don't have to use another religion to get rid of her. 你 don't have to become undesirable to get rid of her. 你 don't need to do any ridiculous thing to get rid of her. Just tell her. 你 shouldn't be 老友记 with some 婊子, 子 who tries to conform 你 a lot, no matter what it may be.

posted 一年多以前