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I have a serious question.

So, I feel bad about something I just did, yet proud at the same time. I had this boyfriend whom is now my ex, as we decided to be friends. The thing is, he's kind of cruel to me. He's been always calling me a 婊子, 子 lately and he used to make me cry and get mad at me for no reason. Fairly recently, he called me a bitch, and I 说 we shouldn't be talking anymore until we were 更多 civil. The thing is, he also has a past of harming himself. I'm kind of afraid he'll do that again. The guy's a dick at times, but I don't want him to DIE. What should I do?

PS: Yes, for some of 你 smart asses, I shouldn't exactly be posting my problems online, but I can't tell my family about this.
 brittanyloves posted 一年多以前
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Shadowmarioking said:
Well, I'd bring it up with him about 你 being concerned about him. I'd also ask (that is, if I were in your situation) Why he insists on 表演 like this towards you, and why he's calling 你 names. If he gets defensive about this though, at least make him promise that he won't become reckless and start hurting himself again. And make sure he means it when he promises. After that, all 你 can do is hope he keeps his promise.

That's all I can say about this.
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posted 一年多以前 
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He kept giving "silent treatment" to me, but only with calling. I was persistent, and wanted him to answer me. He told me why he hasn't have. I got very annoyed, and told him to just give me a chance and I've stopped. It broke out in this fight saying "You being a 婊子, 子 isn't going to convince me to talk to you" where upon I 说 the other thing'
brittanyloves posted 一年多以前
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Sounds like he's incredibly defensive. Perhaps 你 should lay low and not speak with him for a while and see how things pan out. Some things are best left unknown. It's up to him now to sort out whatever's going on. So yeah, I'd put some distance between the two of 你 for a while until things clear up.
Shadowmarioking posted 一年多以前
babydoll2580 said:
id tell him to not hurt himself and to tell him you'll be his friend again if he stops bieng mean 2 you. And tell him how u trully feel
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