Is the socially fair?

Just wait to make a Facebook. I can understand why a mother wouldn't want her 14 年 old having one (I checked your profile). She might let up later on, but if she doesn't, once 你 turn 18, 你 can do whatever 你 please on the internet.

The no talking to boys rule is a bit extreme. If 你 go to a public school, I don't see how it's even possible to not talk to boys. Where I am, nobody really dated until one of the two were old enough to drive. Waiting another two years shouldn't be such a huge deal.
你 can still talk to guys and get to know them at school. Do the mini-dating thing. Eat lunch together and such. Your mom really doesn't need to know who 你 eat lunch with.

I understand the 脸谱 thing, i mean if it were me i would become completely obsessed and that's why i don't have one...

i don't get the dating thing i mean 你 can't even be 老友记 with a guy? Seriously...?

I understand both of them...Facebook is not a necessity and if 你 really want one, technically 你 can still get one without her permission. Although the not even being 老友记 thing is extreme, I wasn't allowed to 日期 until I was sixteen and even now I'm sure daddy will be cleaning his gun when I bring a boy home, but as long as you're under her roof it's really her choice.