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BabyBlud said:
I'm bi-sexual and i don't find this 问题 offensive at all. It's a genuine 问题 and obviously this person wanted to be educated on how others may have felt. No, i wouldn't fall out with a friend just because they were bi, gay, transexual 或者 anything. That who they want to be, then let them. But if you're having problems with a friend 你 think/or know is bi and 你 feel a little uncomfortable about it, i would invite this friend round for a chat and explain how 你 feel. Just because you're a little 'grossed out' doesn't mean 你 still can't be friends. One of my 老友记 has been brought up in a very strict enviroment, homoesxuality of any kind is forbidden, so when he found out i was bi, understandably he freaked but he was able to talk to me. Ask me 问题 on what i did, what made me feel this way, what had i done in the past etc Your friend may not be as open as i am, but it helped my friend understand a little more. We came to a compromise. I wouldn't flaunt my sexuality in front of him like i do other friends, for example rating girls we see in the 街, 街道 for fun (shallow i know but it is fun XD), and he wouldn't try to turn me staigth 或者 tell me why being this way was wrong. We are still good friends, so maybe this will work for 你 too?
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