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I have clinical depression and I have a group of five 老友记 (including me) and when I feel depressed, looked depressed 或者 like cry 或者 something three of them ignore me, just completely ignore me and pretend I don't exist and they do this all the time....it's horrible and I feel like killing myself because of it.I feel I am worthless since they don't give a f**k. It got so bad I didn't sit at the 表 where we sit for lunch and they didn't even come looking for me.

I think I'm being a drama 皇后乐队 and a bit self centred but I am serious, they just turn a deaf ear and pretend I'm a 迷失 cause. Please help me, what should I do?

BTW I have been diagnosed and do have therapy
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FYI: My parent's do know and also the other friend is my BFF and really supportive
snusnu13 posted 一年多以前
 snusnu13 posted 一年多以前
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thespikedturtle said:
Well 你 have therapy, that's the most important part. But therapy doesn't really help unless 你 have people there supporting you.

Most importantly, make sure your parents know. If your parents know 你 have it, then they're definitely always going to be there for you. They're your parents, they'll 爱情 你 and protect 你 no matter what happens.

And there's still that other friend in the group that doesn't completely ignore you. 你 need to try talking seriously about this with them, make sure they understand how dire the circumstances are.

And never, EVER kill yourself because of your friends. 你 are who 你 are, and their ignorance shouldn't distract from that. Depression is serious, and if they don't even wonder why 你 cry, then they're not really worth being 老友记 with anyway. I mean, it's always good to surround yourself with happiness when you're like that, but never ignorance.

Whatever happens, hope it gets better for 你 :)
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