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I HATE IT WHEN PEOPLE CALL ME GIANT! HELP!!

Im only 16 turning 17 this april 24 and I stand 5'8 and my classmates keep calling me giant and goliath 或者 whatsoever... I hate it... Makes me feel bad about myself... HOW DO I DEAL WITH THIS?
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and another thing its like theyve never seen a tall big girl before...ugh
serenateaddict posted 一年多以前
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Bond_Of_Fury said:
Don't take this too blunt, I really dislike sseeing people bullied.

你 shouldn't give a damn. I even think a height such as yours is admirable. I'm 4,9... I've been bullied for a while to. When it gets tough, just hold on to the thoughts that 你 also have admirers. Me, for example.
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posted 一年多以前 
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thanks... really... i hate bullies, they think they 're cool but theyre not
serenateaddict posted 一年多以前
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They'll learn.
Bond_Of_Fury posted 一年多以前
xebbi said:
wow... 你 have a great height.... 你 should be proud of....back in school, i was skinny and my classmates were used to make fun of me 由 calling me bones... but i had never regret because my perception is i am what i am... and i think they were all jealous!!! never seen a skinny huh!!!
if they call 你 giant just call them "tinnies are 你 jealous of my height" and happy birthday in advance
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posted 一年多以前 
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thank u very much... i sure will never forget your advice,,:)
serenateaddict posted 一年多以前
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,awww she sure is right do not let them get to you,be happy about it and flunt it,its going to make them wanna blast and eventualy they will learn and get over it cause right now they are doing it because they see that it is getting to you..happy birthday in advice,as my friend puts it,'you wil be getting your 17th wrinkle'! :)
miznicky posted 一年多以前
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your welcome... glad to help 你
xebbi posted 一年多以前
dreamfields said:
Kids can be mean in high school. Just be confident in who God made you. How 你 feel about yourself is the most important. Try to ignore them. Eventually they should get over it. Remember, your height does have advantages. My wife, from the Philippines is 5'3". She often ask me to get tings she can't reach. I wish 你 a very happy birthday. Feel free to have an extra piece of cake 或者 scoop of icecream for me. :)
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posted 一年多以前 
Goldilottes said:
Hi sorry this is long but i think i can help :)
All the above 建议 these ppl have 给 你 is true. I've never been tall- ive always been quite short and slim and bullies have found that amusing too. Bullying like this can be easy to deal with in the right frame of mind, because it is obvious that they are jealous.

To get 你 started, Here are some facts about being a tall girl-
* 你 don't have to wear high uncomfortable stilettos to parties, so 你 can concentrate on having a good time, and dancing will be 更多 comfortable. 你 can 哈哈 when the bullies fall flat on their faces.
* It's true that some girls are paranoid about being taller, so this is probably the cause of most of your bullying.
* The tall boys are easier to 吻乐队(Kiss) ;)
* 你 can put the bully's bag on a high shelf and watch them try to jump and get it like a muppet
*Most catwalk 模特 are tall
* Most boys like tall girls. lots of them say their idea of a perfect girl height is 'tall but not taller than me' and i doubt 你 are taller than most boys. the dude i like is 6 ft.
* Lots of people associate being tall with being powerful
* It may be because the bullies find 你 intimidating, which isn't a bad thing.

And also, 5'8 really isnt giantly tall for a 17 年 old. the average is about 5'6 but normal is anywhere from 5'4 to 5'8 so 你 are fine.
One of my 老友记 is 16 and 5'8 and all the boys 爱情 her cos she's a lovely sunny person and she always makes sure she looks nice. i know all the girls are dead jealous of her, and i reckon thats whats happening to you.
Remember, the key is not to let them see it get to you, even if it does.
Be confident, make sure 你 do your hair and wear your makeup, be friendly and put out a confident vibe so the bullies will feel less powerful to say anything to you. and if they do then just remember they're sad with nothing better to do, and if they call 你 something like giant, 你 laugh in a 'wow-youre-so-pathetic' kind of way, then say something like 'yeah, like 你 wish 你 were', and walk away before they can say anything else.
if they do say anything else, just smile in a smug way. that will make them feel like this little. trust me gurl, you'll be fine ;)
and dont forget to do these things for back up:
*keep a diary of every 日 and the bullying that happens, wheni happens and who is doing it. name names!
* tell a teacher / tutor, tell your parents, and confide in your best mate if she's trustworthy.
Good luck, hope it helped. ;) here's a link 你 might be interested in: link
Lottey x
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posted 一年多以前 
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It's long but I 爱情 it...:) Thanks
serenateaddict posted 一年多以前
Animeanimal said:
Would 你 rather be called tiny? Like Edward Elric? All kidding aside, 你 should be happy that 你 are unique and take pride in that. Toss the teasing aside and just sit back and laugh at those who make fun 或者 tease. Because on the inside they are missing something that is being filled 由 the joy they get in teasing you. 你 are making them complete and that is a good thing.

p.s. the pic is ed elric the tiniest 日本动漫 person EVER!!! 哈哈
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 Would 你 rather be called tiny? Like Edward Elric? All kidding aside, 你 should be happy that 你 are unique and take pride in that. Toss the teasing aside and just sit back and laugh at those who make fun 或者 tease. Because on the inside they are missing something that is being filled 由 the joy they get in teasing you. 你 are making them complete and that is a good thing. p.s. the pic is ed elric the tiniest 日本动漫 person EVER!!! 哈哈
posted 一年多以前 
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Thank 你 so much. Great answer, really. You're awesome
serenateaddict posted 一年多以前
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No prob! ^-^
Animeanimal posted 一年多以前
smileypop9 said:
Look down at them, laugh boldly and walk away.
Call them midgets.

I don't think 5'8 is really tall anyway. This person at school is like 6'1 and a girl... and like 15 years old.
You'll probs stop growing really soon, and men find 5'8 women rlly attractive :) so dont worry :)
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posted 一年多以前 
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Thank u... I'm even taller than the tallest boy in class so.
serenateaddict posted 一年多以前
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boys get their growth spurts after the girls. don't worry, man.
smileypop9 posted 一年多以前
I_DONT-KNOW said:
Yeah well, I'm the smallest person in the universe...I don't think I grow any 更多 and I am only 15. 你 should just ingnore it, being that tall 你 could probably take them all out in one swing...god I wish I was tall...I may be the smallest girl in school. Anyway yeah just tell them to shut up!
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posted 一年多以前 
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Thank u so much! I feel a lot better now and there's a chance you'll grow even a litlle taller at the age of 15, :)
serenateaddict posted 一年多以前
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XD
I_DONT-KNOW posted 一年多以前
ladyshela said:
Ok, always remember 你 are beautiful. I stand at 5'5''- ish and I hate it; I wish I was 5'8''!!! Anywho, look down at them with a smile on your face and say, "Hey, how's the weather down there?" when they make a mean 评论 about your height. Be proud your tall and don't have to make up for it with heels like I do!!! :)
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kunimista said:
this is actually something 你 should be glad about they are probally making fun of 你 as a risk to see if your a steriotypical gentle giant the 下一个 time someone messes with 你 just do a power slam on them and become the main of the school the one all admire
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youknowit010 said:
Just look down on them. Literally and figuratively.
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underworldqueen said:
dude 你 shouldn't feel bad about your height, i mean your 5'8 so am I...only difference is im a girl and if 你 went to my school 你 wouln't feel bad cause the majority of the students here are giants and i feel short campared to them ...and where the same height so don't feel bad.
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