Since when is being a daydreamer, and following your 心 selfish? She did not know completely what she was getting herself into, and it was still hard for her to sign the contract, besides its not like this was a one sided thing- her father didnt make things easier 由 putting a hold on her, and he even admitted it himself. But there are couple times where she is concerned for her father and her sisters- she says " If I become human, I will never be with my father 或者 sisters again". So I am not going to sit and listen to anyone call her selfish anymore 或者 use the word selfish like its not a bad thing, because its common sense to anyone with half a brain that being selfish is a very bad thing. Everyone knows that. There is nothing good about being even a little selfish. So stop calling her that. NO ones needs; she didn't need the approval of anyone but herself if she want to chase her dreams- that would have been being too concerned with what others think, which is also not good. But family is different and she did consider them. Alot of 你 guys are very mixed up about the word selfish. I don't know where 你 got the info that it was an okay thing to be even a little selfish but you're wrong, The thesaurus says other words for selfish ( which I didn't have to use- cause its common sense) are: mean, mean spirited, ego-maniac, egocentric, cold-hearted, thinks only about the benefit of ones self, thinks of only how to gain things for ones self. These are not good ways to be. The Beast was put under a curse for being selfish- Gaston is selfish and Conceited. So think before 你 use it again because 你 are using it way out of context. And I will always correct you. If 你 爱情 Ariel, don't do it cause it makes no sense. Not only her, but none of the 迪士尼 Princesses are selfish. Thats why this word is being misused.
