基督教

回答这一问题

基督教 问题

My friend doesn't approve of my faith..

So my friend and I have known each other for a while, and I knew her before I was Christian. Then I went through a lot of depression, self-mutilation, and a lot of crap. Long story short, I became a Christian, and am a lot happier. Me and her used to be Wiccan, I'm not sure about her p.o.v. anymore. But now she occasionally makes fun of me. She asked me how many times a week I go to church, and I 说 twice a week, and she 说 "Oh, wow. 你 have no life anymore."

And then she was calling these people rude names, and I told her it wasn't nice, and she hit me and 说 "Stupid Christians. Why are 你 so fucking nice? Those people probably hate 你 anyway."

Now whenever she catches me listening to Christian music, 或者 doing bible study hw, 或者 anything related to it, I get so afraid. I dont want to be ashamed of Jesus, but I just don't want her to know anything about it I guess, cause I don't want her to insult God, and also me. How do I make her stop, and realize how much God has helped me? If I hadn't found God, I 更多 than likely would have killed myself 由 now.
 para-scence posted 一年多以前
next question »

基督教 答案

thetacoman said:
Some people just are genuinely mean. But, that means we must 爱情 them more.
And, why be embarrassed? 'For if our God is for us, then who can stand against us?'
The immediate solution is to back off from her for a while, or, if that's not possible, ask her why.
If she says Christians are stupid, ask why.
If she says God is not good, ask why.
It is very likely she will have no answer, and if she knows that her snide 评论 will always be met with 'why?' she will stop.
select as best answer
posted 一年多以前 
*
Thank 你 very much for the help. God bless 你
para-scence posted 一年多以前
NormalcyIsDead said:
I'm so glad that you've found Christ (sorry if this sounds like "Oh yeah, got some fresh bait!" ;) ).
Pray for your friend, that she'll see the change in you, and want that change also. It may not seem like much, praying, but prayer is a powerful thing. Just give your cares up to God.
显示 her the same kindness that 你 showed to those people she was calling names. Not guaranteeing that it'll work instantly, but it's hard to be mad at someone who shows kindness to you.
下一个 time she taunts 或者 makes fun of you, tell her "I don't like 你 making fun of me, 或者 my God. 你 have your beliefs, and I would like it if 你 don't trash on mine." One 更多 thing 你 can do is look up Bible verses as encouragements. Psalms 55: 22 and James 1: 2-4 are really good.
Hope this helps 你 some, and I'll be praying for 你 also. God bless!
 select as best answer
posted 一年多以前 
*
Thanks I like those scriptures. God bless 你 too
para-scence posted 一年多以前
icuSTALKER said:
I'm not ashamed of 耶稣 and 你 shouldn't be either. Tell your friend that if she really loves you, she should respect your new found belief and 你 respect her's. Tell her you're proud to be a Christian. Stand 由 God. He tests your faith every now and then and don't be afraid to 显示 your faith. If she says you're an idiot for believing 'crud', say I will follow what I want to follow. This has helped my character and my attitude and I don't want to stray away. If she scoffs and still says the same things, say please respect my choices and I will respect your's. Otherwise, please leave the subject about it alone.
I tend to get touchy with my religion about non believers because I fear I'll be shunned. But I still go for it and take a risk because I know it's for God. Trust in Him and don't let your faith falter.
God bless you!!:D
 select as best answer
posted 一年多以前 
*
Thank 你 for the help. God bless 你 too
para-scence posted 一年多以前
dreamfields said:
Pray for your friend. She obviously see's a change in you, but does not understand it. 爱情 her, respond to her 评论 calmly. Once she sees that she can't upset 你 with her comments, she'll eventually either stop 或者 try to figure out why.
Just remember, for now 你 are the 耶稣 that your friend sees. There may be things that the two of 你 won't do together. That's fine.
With prayer, 爱情 and explainig what has made a change in your life, 你 are planting a seed in her life. It's a seed that the Holy Spirt will cause to grow, and help her to see the truth. I would suggest never stop praying for her and trust God will work for you. God bless.
 select as best answer
posted 一年多以前 
*
Thank 你 and God bless 你 as well
para-scence posted 一年多以前
wizkid770 said:
jsut explain that it upsets 你 when she says things like that if she really cares she will tone it down a bit
select as best answer
posted 一年多以前 
*
ok thank you. God bless
para-scence posted 一年多以前
Nevermore_ said:
Whenever a Christian person acts this way, people normally say something along the lines of "that's not very christian of 你 to act this way."
Maybe 你 should remind her that it's not very Pagan to act this way. How would her God and Goddess feel about her making fun of another person? What about the threefold law?

Everyone has the right to their own religion no matter what it is, being a Wiccan she should know that 更多 than anyone as pagan religions aren't really accepted in society.
I myself am a Pagan and I think maybe 你 should remind her (in a NICE way) how much it hurts when someone insults your religion.

I will however say that I am happy for 你 that 你 found a path that makes 你 happy and 你 should embrace that and not worry about what people think, however, if 你 feel that being not-so-open about 你 religion with some people would be best for you, there's no shame in doing that.
(:
Blessed Be and best wishes to you, good luck!
 select as best answer
posted 一年多以前 
*
Thank 你 very much for your support :)
para-scence posted 一年多以前
*
You're very welcome (:
Nevermore_ posted 一年多以前
livetobefree said:
I know how 你 feel. I have a friend who is Catholic like me, except she is the total oposite of what the faith teaches. I'm not just talking lying here, I'm talking about drugs, alcohol, and cursing up a storm! She calls me a goody two shoes and it hurts my feelings because doing what's right doesn't make me a "goody two shoes". Just hang in there, because while 你 are happy and your friend isn't, she'll wonder what makes 你 different than her. And that's your faith. Just be nice to her and pray for her. and welcome to the faith :)
 select as best answer
posted 一年多以前 
blackrose294 said:
That's not a friend.
 select as best answer
posted 一年多以前 
tiagih said:
This may not be the most Christian advise but drop your friend. I mean honestly unless your friend can respect 你 not even has to agree but respect your life then 你 don't need them. They will drag 你 down with them and it won't stop from there. I am not saying 你 hate them 或者 don't pray for them but just leave them alone. When they mature some then its ok to talk but don't let your emotions overrule your since of judgement. Funny joke but the bible says "if your eye offendeth thee, pluck it out" i take that literally and apply it to life situations
 select as best answer
posted 一年多以前 
Bladewarrior said:
damn what the hell i mean you're being nice to people even people who don't like 你 and she's 表演 like it's a bad thing yeh but my 建议 is tell her to cut that crap out because your christian and she can't do nothing about it
 select as best answer
posted 一年多以前 
loveofdelena said:
anyone who can critisize 你 for believeing in something they dont agree with, is NO friend at all. i mean 你 dont get nasty at her, and critisize her religion, so why should she get down on you? id say pray for her, and if that dont work, drop her.
 select as best answer
posted 一年多以前 
next question »
Cookies help us bring you Fanpop. By using Fanpop, you agree to our use of cookies. Learn More Got It!