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建议 I keep my 心 inside a box. Is this a problem?

51 fans picked:
I&# 39; m pretty sure it is.
I'm pretty sure it is.
   29%
No.
   18%
My opinion is...
My opinion is...
   14%
你 should talk to someone
你 should talk to someone
   12%
(added by aitypw)
it problily is but thats what i do to....
it problily is but thats what i do to....
   10%
(added by heavenly13)
How are 你 living then? (jk no this IS a problem)
How are 你 living then? (jk no this IS a problem)
   8%
(added by ToEkNeE)
yeah
yeah
   6%
(added by JACOBLOVR45)
wtf idk what 你 mean 电子邮箱 me
wtf idk what 你 mean 电子邮箱 me
   4%
(added by kristinrocks)
 Sweet_Pants posted 一年多以前
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My opinion is...
Emma01 picked My opinion is...:
You say you keep your heart in a box, what exactly do you mean?
You hide it?
If so from what exactly?
posted 一年多以前.
 
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I dont like talking about my feelings, nor expressing them. It's kinda hard for me.
posted 一年多以前.
 
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My opinion is...
emo_grl_4eva picked My opinion is...:
im not reall sure i tend to kept my heart locked away in a dark corner of my heart. it just sits there waiting to be loved.
but it depends on why your heart is kept in a box.
but i dunno as long as you have ppl who love you then thats really all you should need.
I also beleive that it might be a problem but only that depends on weather you harm yourself or not. I should know cuz I did cut myself about a month ago but i had friends to help me through.
thnx for reading my inend gibberish.
hope this gives a bit of enlightenment.
posted 一年多以前.
last edited 一年多以前
 
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My opinion is...
Emma01 picked My opinion is...:
Hmm and your consern is wether it is bad,
I really dont think it is bad.
others might call you heartless
Why is this a concern?
Do you wish to be able to talk about them or to be able to express them?
Sometimes we are just afraid to do so.
posted 一年多以前.
 
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thank you, it did help. I did cut, a long time ago, when i was going through a dose of depression. I was turning 12. Than i started to get better. Dont know why though.

And Emma01, i honestly hope it's not bad, but i usually just hide my feelings with humor, sarcasm, and such. Thank you
posted 一年多以前.
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My opinion is...
emo_grl_4eva picked My opinion is...:
i know how you feel.
if you need someone to talk to you can always talk to me im here for to listen.
posted 一年多以前.
 
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Cinders picked No.:
That's fine, I keep the heart of a child in a jar on my dresser. ;o)

In all seriousness, the expression (or lack thereof) of your emotions is your own business. The only time it may become a problem is in relationships (both friendship and romantic). If a friend/lover feels like you can't open up to them, the relationship could go stagnant. If that ever becomes the case, I recommend trying to discuss at least the FACT that you have trouble discussing your feelings. If you're in a genuinely loving, understanding and trusting relationship, most people should accept this, and be grateful that you were honest enough to admit even that.
posted 一年多以前.
 
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Thank you guys for all your advice, it helped a bit :) And thank you for your offer, emo_grl_4eva :)
posted 一年多以前.
 
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My opinion is...
emo_grl_4eva picked My opinion is...:
no problemo.
im willing to help out in anyways.
posted 一年多以前.
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MIKEYWAY445 picked No.:
I keep my heart in a dark pitch black hole. Is that a problem?
posted 一年多以前.
 
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yeah
JACOBLOVR45 picked yeah:
that sometimes is me but it's REALY BAD to do that because u have to express ur self some how. > ^ , ^ <
posted 一年多以前.
 
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I&# 39; m pretty sure it is.
xrockstarx picked I'm pretty sure it is.:
You got to get a balance between heart on your sleeve and heart in a box.
posted 一年多以前.
 
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yeah
noapplause picked yeah:
If you cling to the protection it gives it is hard for you to let others in. Their may be a really special person waiting just to talk to you.
posted 一年多以前.
 
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I&# 39; m pretty sure it is.
Buggie111 picked I'm pretty sure it is.:
You need to love someone because you will be happy. But when it's over you may be upset but you'll know it was good while it lasted...
posted 一年多以前.
 
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My opinion is...
Angria picked My opinion is...:
In the long run, I would say yes because you have to deal with those emotions eventually. Usually, if it is continuously built up, it is harder to manage them. However, I do the exact same thing. You have to decide the higher price: Keep your heart, experience things partially, maybe fully and not get completely hurt or broken. Or open your heart, experience things fully and possibly get hurt or broken. A choice to make. One that I am still deciding. I'm not saying that you should be open all the time, but possibly when it matters the most, with serious situations and problems.

I also agree with noapplause. There is a special person who will help you if you open up. I'm lucky in that I finally found that person. Yet, you have to be willing to try and I truly hope you find that person.
posted 一年多以前.
 
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I&# 39; m pretty sure it is.
renesmee13 picked I'm pretty sure it is.:
it sounds like it

if its not u mind if i use it in one?
posted 一年多以前.
 
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i dunno much about this. cause me myself do it as well. i swear that i can know people secrets but i just dont tell. i put it all in to this tiny box it never comes out and probably never will. i have issues... i think the only issues i am willing to open up about is about studies and that doesn't really count.. i dunno. i dont see it as a problem but sometimes it is. its like if i dont open up then people wont let me in. so most of the time i feel left out. but it doesn't bother me so much.
posted 一年多以前.
 
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My opinion is...
laura071197 picked My opinion is...:
what the hell do u mean ???
posted 一年多以前.
 
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你 should talk to someone
AlOoOosh picked 你 should talk to someone:
u should always talk to someone and dont keep anything in ur heart , and i have another advice 4 u: dont care because care brings gray hair.... just try to enjoy it and smile
posted 一年多以前.