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Article by Samantha65 posted ·9天前
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I’m honestly getting sick and tired of listening to my best friend who is constantly bragging about how a foreign surfer dude was hitting on her at the beach. During her visit to Australia, she was at that famous 海滩 and apparently this “tall and muscular hunk” approached her and asked if she was single. They exchanged numbers but a few days after that, she flew back here. Since her arrival, she never heard from him again. I wish I could 拍击, smack, 味道 her in the face with the truth that there was never going to be anything between them ‘cause one, they’re in a long distance situation and two, she doesn’t even know his name!
Sorry for the rant, I just really needed to get this off my chest. But if 你 guys have any suggestions and 建议 for me regarding this, that would be awesome. Thanks a bunch.

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Opinion by ryanv22 posted ·4个月前
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My good friend was convinced to 加入 this weird event thing called an a romance tour (i think it’s called?). He’s too shy to go alone so he’s asking me to accompany him. He 说 that he’ll take care of my expenses since he’s kind of excited about attending one. But in my opinion, this doesn't really seem like something I would consider spending money on. There are a couple of things that make me want to go, since it’s travelling to an international country, and hey, I might actually meet someone there. Is it a big waste of time and money 或者 should i just go for the hell of it? I got nothing better to do anyway.
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Article by anonymous211 posted 一年多以前
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I'm a 15 年 old girl and I've been struggling with this for a couple years I've read so many 文章 about figuring out if your biography and taken a countless number of those stupid tests on the internet that are supposed to tell 你 if 你 gay straight bi 或者 anything in between and I just can't work it out so this is my last resort so I geuss I'll start at the beginning ..... when I was in 年 7 I was a bit of a loner I'd just moved school and I hated it there anyway towards the end of 年 7 I made 老友记 with this girl well call her sasha so anyway sasha and I got really close we'd talk about anything from 音乐 to relationships to depression to 果汁 boxes and I was just so grateful to have her as a friend anyway I knew that sasha was bi and that she had a girlfriend who we'll call Beth so we'd often talk about our relationships I was dating a guy at the time who I'm still good 老友记 with so towards the end of grad 7 start of grade 8 sasha and Beth started to have some problems and broke up I remember feeling bad for her but also kind of happy I started imagining what it would be like to hold her hand 或者 吻乐队(Kiss) her and started...
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Opinion by Shakailicious posted 一年多以前
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嘿 everyone! I have recently joined this site because I read an 文章 on a similar topic. This girl wrote about her inner fears that she might be bisexual, she 说 that she absolutely isn't against the gay community she is just unsure of what her sexuality might bring her (like me).
I have a somewhat similar situation concerning my sexual orientation, I 'think' that I am bisexual. As a kid I never had huge crushes on neither boys nor girls. True, the first guy that I liked was in kindergarten, after him I had only 2 'relevant' boy crushes (crushes that lasted somewhat long). However in the past 年 或者 so I noticed that sometimes I also look at women as not just beautiful and attractive, but I have the same view of their attractiveness as I do to the attractiveness of men ( if that makes any sense) and I think that a few months 以前 I had a first acknowledged girl crush, 或者 at least I think I did...
I am always very open to myself when I am in an inner dilemma, however I probably wouldn't be 写作 this 文章 if it hadn't made a huge mess with my emotions.
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Article by abby101skittlex posted 一年多以前
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I started realizing that I had feelings for people, I have had boyfriends and they make me smile and feel happy and not alone. But every time I have a boyfriend I never feel right, I think that they are kind funny smart and many 更多 but I never actually like liked them, I always 说 that I did. I never knew why. Until I met this one guy, he was perfect I thought I really liked him, he was everything and we started talking a lot, we dated and then one 日 we broke up. I felt torn. But I still went on. I like watching things like Victoria's Secret shows and the live shows from them, and I always like watching. My dad 说 that its just for guys because of the body, but I didn't care what he thought, I 说 I just watched it to watch it, but I feel all idk when I watch it and see that they are pretty and perfect I really like everything about them. When I was 14 I transferred school and I have a best friend, she's pretty, and I dated guys if they asked me out but again like before I never really was interested in many, it just felt wrong. I think I like girls but I want to like guys because I'm afraid that if I like girls that people will make fun of me and call me names. And I...
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Opinion by RainGem posted 一年多以前
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I'm female. I have had girl crushes before, but I usually have boy crushes. I have had daydreams about being with girls I like, and I sometimes fantasize my first 吻乐队(Kiss) being with a girl. Most 测验 I take say I'm bisexual. Me and my friend, who is a girl, almost kissed back in first grade but I decided that I couldn't do it. My 老友记 and family are very homophobic and I am also a Christian. I will never tell my family about these feelings because they would disown me if I did. Same with my friends. I also feel like I'm not a good Christian 或者 that I will go to Hell because I think I might be bisexual. I also think that I might be forming a crush on a girl now. What do I do guys?!
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Opinion by trisha136 posted 一年多以前
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im a girl and i have 13 years. i have been bestfriend with this particular girl for about a year. we have been through a lot because of me like there was a time i didnt want to be close with her anymore and i hurted her a lot 由 that but than like after a week everything turmed back to normal. i was always a shy girl and im the last summer we didnt go out so much together i wish we did but i was shy because if we where going out we would be just us (just 2 girls together) and i thought that when people will see us just the 2 of us they would thing that we are together and i didnt want that at all (i never told she this)but now after the summer we went out like 5 times 或者 更多 (because of school) and we went alone and like i didnt care that much with the fact that we where alone. 由 the way since the last year(2015) i had only 2 primary crushes (boys) that i thought that i felt something form them i now i sure that i didnt felt anything they where just nice guys. when im with her i feel so happy and a little bit shy toobut i feel something not strange but like something i dont know if it just a best friend feeling 或者 something more. we chat all the time and im really happy about...
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Article by needhelppls posted 一年多以前
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So, basically,if ive had to describe myself, im a 15 年 old guy. I Know and always knew that i was attracted to women, but when i was around 9 years old, i got a new friend, and i started to kinda like touching him and all.
I was always using every occasion to hold his hand,
touch his hair and all. Then one day, we had a sleepover
and i just suggested to like try out doing gays, just to see how it is. he agreed, just to try it out, but for me, it was kinda like heaven, we were kissing, and i had plenty oportunities to be as close to him as possible. But he didnt really like it that much, which kinda dissapoints me,
but i really enjoyed it. and why do i say usually u think?
because it then happended like 2-3 times.
Now he refuses to do it, which makes me sad.
but i think that he doesnt suspect anything, we have even been talking about it a few months 以前 (our last 吻乐队(Kiss) was like a 年 ago) and he told me that he doesnt thing that im gay, that i just wanted to try it out. which kinda isnt true. I remember one night when i was sleeping at his house he asked me if i wanna be "experimenting" that night, and i had to sleep in another room...
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Opinion by RoisinKelly01 posted 一年多以前
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The 日 before i went back to school i was in Claires Accessories. I saw a girl that im 老友记 with (from my school) and she was with another girl. The girl that was with her was wearing the coolest 超人 最佳, 返回页首 id ever freaking seen! I started talking to them. The girls name was Holly. She had short wavy/curly hair with tiny bits of light 粉, 粉色 here and there. I asked 冬青, 冬青树 what kind of 音乐 she liked. "MCR." I was smiling like an idiot! My Chemical Romance is one of my favourite bands! "Ghost Town?" "Yup!" "Green Day?" "Hell yeah!"
冬青, 冬青树 was starting my school the 下一个 day. We were really good 老友记 up until last week. This girl called Lorna, started talking to Holly. I was ok with it, i was accepting Lorna coz her first 年 at secondary school was trouble. Lorna lied about having cancer. Lorna lied about her own dad being dead and she posts sad instagram 照片 of herself. "Oh how i wish i was like ye!"
Lorna walks out on her 老友记 but this time i thought shed grow up a bit.
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Opinion by Frozengirl11 posted 一年多以前
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Ok, so I have this friend who's a Freshman, like me, at my high school & everyday when I get to my lunch table, usually there's nobody there, so I go on my phone & onto YouTube to watch some 视频 I really like. Well, while I'm doing that, my friend Mitchell always sneaks up behind me & tasers my sides. Well, this would be ok if I wasn't extremely ticklish there! Whenever he does this, I always jump, squeal, & bring my arms down to protect my ticklish sides.

He's always done this & he enjoys it, I can see that. To be honest, I do like it when he does this, but sometimes, I don't. And usually, I'm having a crappy 日 after 4th hour(Exploring Science), because there's a girl in my 表 group, Lauren, who's always snobby to me & mean. I never did anything to her to make her hate me!! So usually after that class, I'm in a bad mood. But when Mitchell tasers me, it makes me feel better. But I'm not sure what I should say to him!! Please help me out!!!
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Opinion by the-awesome-6 posted 一年多以前
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Being bisexual isn't all fun and games.

In fact, it can be incredibly hard. The first time I ever came out, I was terrified. Luckily, the person I told- my mom, was understanding and supportive. But not everyone is like that. I cannot express my anger when I get 评论 like, "wow, that must be so hard" and "does that make you... like, lesabian AND straight?

What people don't really understand is that we are not really different. We're different like different religions. Sort of the same, sort of different. We aren't a seperate species, and we aren't bad 或者 harmful.

Also, we are aware of the insults people give us. One of the most hurtful things 你 can say to someone who is GLBT is, "that's sooooooo gay!" Because 你 might now know that they're GLBT. I know this firsthand. A lot of my family are very religous Catholics, and they don't accept that I'm bi. They refuse to talk to me, post anti-GLBT stuff on Facebook, etcetera. And it really hurts. But I have to be the better person and not be rude to them.
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Opinion by quaintcomfort posted 一年多以前
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I'm a 16 年 old female (about to graduate her sophomore 年 of high school) & everything used to be okay. I was a 4.0 student (up until now), I had a few 老友记 to hang out with on weekends, I studied hard, I got along with people... But now I just feel terrible. My grade point average has dropped to a 3.7 (which is still good but... it's not good enough) & my mom never ever helps me at all: she always makes things worse with all her yelling and screaming at me to "get skinnier" and "go on lots of diets" and "lose weight lose weight!" and "go to gym 你 need to lose weight" but I also have to "study study study!" 或者 else I'll go to a community college. All of her yelling and bantering just makes me feel worse and worse & I just can't take it anymore.

My family isn't the richest. I mean, we do have money to afford necessities & I usually get things I "like but don't need", but college is super expensive & I know my parents can't afford a full term for it, so my mom is begging & pleading for me to get scholarships so I can get all my education. I've already gotten a D+ in math (everyone has crap grades in that class though - the teacher can't...
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Article by hipstabelike posted 一年多以前
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So here's my problem.
There is this guy I have known for a long time and he's nice. I mean he's nice. He has had a crush on me for the longest time. I have rejected him 3 times. Since then he has still tried to get out of the friend zone box. He 说 to one of his 老友记 if I dated him I would solve 99 percent of his problems and I was right there so I 说 I will make 你 99 更多 problems. After that he still hasn't 给 up. He left for a trip and now he is back from it. I don't want him to think I am a jerk. So what should I say to him?
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News by MisterH posted 一年多以前
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=p3KlrfjcjV4

THIS IS VERY URGENT AND NOT A JOKE! ALSO DON'T GOOF OFF!!!!

I really mean it! What would 你 be able to do if SOPA/TPP censors the internet? What would 你 be able to do if 写作 fanfics and drawing fanarts become illegal? What would 你 do if it's illegal to do a cover of your 最喜爱的 song on YouTube? What would 你 do if downloading things from the internet (music, movies, TV episodes, etc) became illegal? What would 你 do if SOPA/TPP wins the war and takes away internet freedom? Net Neutrality is already dead so far, we can't risk the freedom of internet from getting killed 由 SOPA/TPP!


SOPA may have been stopped, but large companies with many copyrights are trying to re-institute portions of it under other names and policies. This attempt to protected speech in the name of copyright is unacceptable, and must be resisted.
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Article by LorMel posted 一年多以前
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Ok, here it is,
One 日 I'm at school, just minding my own biz, and talking to my friends. Then one of my ex boyfriends 老友记 comes up. Hes all," Hey, heres a note from Robert." So I read it. It read,
If I could have 3 wishes, it would be to have the girl I 爱情 back who burnd me, and to have enough money to buy her whatever she wants...
Obvisosly, hes talking about me. We dated last year, now... hes still on my shoulders, like an annoying 鹦鹉 that won't go away. My friend told him that I wanted to go back out with him... and I don't!
Then...*sighs* then, theres my online boyfriend... hes sweet, charming, and we do things... I've known Robert longer, but my 爱情 for him..(online bf) is so strong... we talked with our voices today and I almost screamed...
But the probolm is, is that I'm tring to break up with Robert, but every time I'm about to say it, he gives me a gift 或者 when I say it, he laughs and thinks I'm joking.. What do I do?!?!
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Article by angelwings2055 posted 一年多以前
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So I have this guy friend. His name is will not be mentioned but his code name is Dr.Spazz ok?
So Dr.Spazz used to be SUPER nice to me and I started liking him. I don't anymore because he's been a jerk to me lately. I have had a rough few months due to my grandfather dying. He was nice to me for a bit then was a jerk again. I started being a jerk right back. And then my good friend, she will be named as the pegasister, told me he called me nice. Even though I have been nothing but a jerk to him he called me nice?!?! I was shocked! Then I told my best friend, who will be named as the dog whisperer. I told her and she thought I started liking Dr.Spazz again. Which I don't! She knows now but he called me nice and I feel like a TOTAL jerk now. What should I do even though we never talk about stuff like this?
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Guide by RoisinKelly01 posted 一年多以前
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ok, this all started when my mum and i decided to watch a romantic comedy (not gonna mention the title), but before that she gave me "THE TALK" which i didnt happen to like. i kept my feelings to myself until i was playing truth 或者 dare with my friends, one of my 老友记 asked: "Roisín, truth... *creepy voice* 或者 dare?" "definately truth." "hmm... what do 你 think about:
1. having a boyfriend?
2. first kisses?
3. 或者 a husband?"
i had to be honest so i said, "i dont want to have any!" they stared at me for a moment then asked, " whats wrong with it?" i was thinking, THE BRASS NECK OF HER! "i just dont want to, i have an opinion and if 你 dont like it, then why are 你 living right now?" do 你 get me, she was a friend of mine, who didnt like my opinion. so, since then ive totally regretted ever liking the thought of romantic 电影院 (GREASE especially) because of alllll the snogging. my parents tease me saying, "theres going to come a time when youll be up in the village snogging my boyfriend." pffft... AS IF! "youll just have to wait and see!" i always reply.
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Opinion by kid_symmetry posted 一年多以前
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嘿 everyone!

So i have a really good guy friend that I now have feelings for. He's the first guy that I can't get over. I've never had a boyfriend, only really good guy 老友记 and I don't quite know what to do!! He doesn't like to talk about how he feels, he is always in and out of relationships, and he is honestly a really nice guy! He and I can talk freely about almost anything and he and I are now really close.
School got back last monday and He had I have been hanging out a lot. Most of our 老友记 have been 分裂, 拆分 up onto different classes and only he and I are left of what was our little group of friends. I have most of my classes with him and He and I sit 下一个 to eachother (Because our last names both end in the same letter) What really kills me is that he talks so openly about who he likes, his 爱情 life, his breakups, and I'm too nervous to say anything. I met his mom and she's really nice and she seems to think I'm alright. My parents have met him and my mom likes him but my dad looks like he's about to tear his head off ever time he see's us together. (Oh, well. I guess dad's are like that. ^-^ )We pick on eachother and txt and call a lot,...
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Opinion by squish555 posted 一年多以前
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I met this girl four weeks 以前 and since then we have spent most of our time together; we even worked out the other 日 we've seen each other everyday for nearly 3 weeks. From the beginning our relationship was very touchy feely and I had no problem with that; the only thing is I think I've started developing feelings for her plus I've never liked a girl before.
After a few times of her coming round my house my family started making funny 评论 like 'are 你 decent?' before coming in the room when she was around. I thought nothing of it until we were at the 晚餐 and they started questioning me on whether I like, obviously I 说 no and that we were just friends; I know they'd be 100% fine with it but I don't want to go round saying I like her if its not true.
We always give each other kisses and she's even 给 me 爱情 bites! When I'm with her I feel 安全 like nothing could go wrong; before I met her I was dealing with controlling anxiety and depression but since I've met her myself and others have realised how much better I'm doing; I've never been good at opening up but with her its just so simple. I don't want to lead her on as she's had a pretty rough history...
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Review by -siean- posted 一年多以前
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I .... just can't feel anything ... I am Always Complained about that ... I'm Passing through much things now:

Reason1:- my country is living in a war , some say it's because of America and other countries that want to take ours (syria) and others say it's for freedom and because of of the president and his violence (haven't actually been sure of any so I can't judge) , anyway , just 谷歌 Syria 或者 look in YouTube to see what I am talking about , this situation destroyed my biggest childhood dream to win the computer contest of my country then the one of the world , but because of the current situation (sometimes I can't get out of 首页 , and explosions 或者 火, 消防 are our usual daily sounds which we feel weird if didn't hear it in some hour) so thy had to 取消 the contest , and for the last few months everyone became very angry for the least reason so it became so usual to see my parents shouting and sometimes my mom goes out and we spend hours worrying about her and trying to know where she is while she 答案 ( I'm just out wonna rent a house away , isn't that what 你 want?) I really don't worry 或者 care about her , just because if something happens it will happen...
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Opinion by SilverFanGirl posted 一年多以前
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My own advice. 你 con't have to take it. Its just something I like to do. Hopefully I can do something 更多 once I'm out of high school! :)

🔲Life🔲
Life is like a race. Some are cheaters, some aren't. Just remember there are stages 你 have to go through to keep moving on. In order to get to the finish line, 你 have to keep running. 

🔲Living🔲
Have 你 ever wondered how many stars are in the sky? Have 你 ever wondered what stories you'll be able to pass down to your grandchildren, maybe even great-grandchildren? Just because life is harder than 你 expect, your path is still laid ahead of you. There's so much blur, it's exciting. Do 你 ever want to find out your path? There may be rocks and stones 你 trip over but doesn't mean 你 can't get back up. There's people out there just like you. Who struggled with almost the same things but some have worse than 你 do. Some kids don't get 食物 so their path is shorter than yours. Life may be hard but it's also exciting. What if 你 knew your path? What 你 would be when 你 grew older? Wouldn't that be boring? 你 don't know what life brings 你 so keep going and figure it out. Your...
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Opinion by xWiildfiire posted 一年多以前
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So, these past couple months, I've picked up a few things. My story in a nutshell: I sat behind my crush in class, didn't start liking him until the last 月 或者 so of school, didn't get too many chances to talk to him due to the teacher's way of running the class, and I spent those last few weeks desperately trying to befriend him.

Anyways, here are some things I've learned from the whole experience.

1. Don't EVER pass up an opportunity to talk to ANYONE you're sitting near in class (doesn't matter if it's high school, college, work, whatever), and don't EVER take a conversation for granted. 你 never know how desperate 你 might be later on to be 老友记 with them. This was probably my biggest mistake; the first time my guy and I talked, I played along, no real issues, but I didn't think much of it. He just seemed like another guy, and I always waited for him to talk to me, and rarely took initiative to start a conversation myself 或者 to carry it on. Just thinking of what could've been, that sense of regret of not taking 更多 chances from the start really stings.
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List by HonoviHania posted 一年多以前
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The art of being wise is knowing what to overlook.-William James

A wise man learns 由 the mistakes of others,
a fool 由 his own.-Latin Proverb

Silence does not always mark wisdom.-Samuel Taylor Coleridge.

A loving 心 is the truest wisdom.-Charles Dickens

Try not to become a man of success but a man of value.-Albert Einstein

Happy are those who dream dreams and are ready to pay the price to make them come true.-Leon J. Suenes

The power of imagination makes us infinite.-John Muir

你 miss 100% of the shots 你 don't take.-Wayne Gretzky

Most of the shadows of this life are caused 由 our standing in our own sunshine.-Ralph Waldo Emerson

The acts of this life are the destiny of the next.-Eastern Proverb

Life is a tragedy for those who feel, and a comedy for those who think.-La Bruyere

The best way to prepare for life is to begin to live.-Elbert Hubbard
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Article by Emmett4ever posted 一年多以前
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Many people feel that 爱情 hurts...that it's only gonna bring pain and sadness. But to tell 你 the truth...love won't do that. 爱情 is when everything is perfect and no matter how bad your 日 is 你 still find a reason to smile because 你 feel like 你 have the most amazing person in your life. Yeah 你 may be going through some problems in this relationship but let me tell 你 something...Love conquers all. No matter how bad the situation is 你 can get through it together. Don't let a silly little argument 或者 what anyone says about your relationship go in front of your judgement on your own relationship. And I'm going to give 建议 to those people who 迷失 someone and sees that person with someone else...Listen if 你 truly loved them 你 would let them be happy with whoever. Don't interfere. 你 will be happy and so will they. And plus it will give 你 peace at mind. Dream Big. 爱情 Forever. Live like today is your last day
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Article by Emmett4ever posted 一年多以前
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Though sometimes we feel like we have this huge weight on our sholders. We feel so alone in this world. That no one cares for us. But we just have to open our eyes and look right 下一个 to us. We always have someone there for us. We are never alone.
Life is like a game. But it only has one mode and one mode only...hard. But to me it seems better that way. Like I 说 Life is a game but when 你 have instructions to win it doesn't it get boring quickly. Life wasn't made to be easy. I learned that the hard way..but someone very special to me once told me "Make Life what 你 want". 你 are the only one who can control your life. Make life what 你 want it to be, don't lose yourself to it.
Your strong enough to overcome anything that is thrown at you. 你 just have to have confidence in yourself and who 你 are. Be yourself. Stand up for what 你 believe in and don't let anyone bring 你 down. Because your perfect no matter what ANYONE says. Make mistakes. Be loud. Live your life. Because life is your own piece of art. It is your blank canvas. Paint it the way 你 want to. Dream on. Believe in yourself. And make your life..your way
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