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is he just waiting until i have sex with him, then is he going to clear off and never see me again?

i used to be really close to this boy. we was good frends, would meet up smoke a fag together just chill in the park. but then one 日 i met him and we ended up 接吻 but he wanted me to give him hed. i 说 no, i wasnt ready to do that for him. we started to drift apart and i think its because i 说 no.
every since then we starte talking dirty and i got feelings for him. and the feelings are strong like i want him to be my boyfrend.
we have met up a cupel of times since and weed talked about meetin up to have sex, but wenever i see him i get too shy. he doesnt force me to sleep with him he just raps his arms round me but i just look at him and he noes that i feel uncomftable doing stuff with him.
when im with him his really nice but if i text him he sometimes blanks me
is he using me 或者 not? im not quite sure becuase of the conversations we sometimes have.
 kaytieedowg posted 一年多以前
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bakes2389 said:
Yes, this guy is just using 你 for sex. Stop hanging out with this guy. He is not a good guy for 你 to be hanging out with, unless 你 feel the need to lower your standards to this scumbag. Any guy that kisses 你 for the first time and wants 你 to go down on him.....is a royal asshole. I'm glad 你 说 no.
This guy is playing with you. He thinks that if he is nice to 你 long enough, flirts with dirty talk, and doesn't pressure 你 (yet), that you'll have sex with him.
你 deserve better than this! I know 你 like him now and have feelings for him, but I believe 你 just like the attention that this guy is giving you. He seems sweet and he thinks you're sexy. Believe me, I get it......he makes 你 feel like you're the only girl for him. But in reality, he just wants the sex.
你 can sit him down and talk to him.......but he might just say anything 你 want to hear that will get him laid. Please just let this guy go. 你 will get hurt in the end, and 你 do not need this. Best of luck! I hope this helped!
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posted 一年多以前 
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thankyou, this helped me relise what an idiot im being. im taking your 建议 thankyou
kaytieedowg posted 一年多以前
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You're welcome! You're not being an idiot, you're just being fooled 由 some player! Best of luck! :D
bakes2389 posted 一年多以前
InvaderRena said:
don't hang out with this guy
unless 你 like boys that way :/
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posted 一年多以前 
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i proper like him tho, but i mite just get him and ask him if he just wants a shag
kaytieedowg posted 一年多以前
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I agree with bakes2389
InvaderRena posted 一年多以前
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