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I'm having issues with the way my friend is treating me.

Some of 你 may remember me. I 发布 a question, 更多 than a 年 ago, about how my friend was bing really touchy-feely and she would always invade my personal 太空 and be friendly and nice to me all the time. Back then, she had been about to leave for Italy, and she wouldn't be back until August 13th of the following year. She was gone for about 8 and half months. At high school initiation for the 9th graders, I saw her and was shocked at how different she was. It is now the fifth week of our 秒 and final semester as 9th graders, and she hardly even looks at me, much less speaks to me. She never 答案 my text messages 或者 my calls, never wants to sit 下一个 to me 或者 talk. She nver wants to walk with me 或者 anything else really. The last time I got an ACTUAL hug from her was on the third 日 of Freshman year. I got a hug a few days ago, but that's only bcause I brought her food...

My point is, is that this has ben going on for a really long time. At th beginning of the year, our friendship had still ben going strong despite the distance. But within the first two weeks of highschool, I felt it sort of slip from my grasp, and things unraveled. I don't believe I did anything to deserve this kind of treatment, but I just got used to it after awhile.

I remember, one-and a half years ago, at my 老友记 14th birthday party, we all slpt outside in a tent. She started talking to all of use about how she didn't want to lose any of us, and about how she wanted to stay 老友记 all through highschool. She made us promise and then She promised all of us that she would do the same. It hurts now, because I feel like she is keping her promise to everyone but me. I'm the only one being left out on a regular basis and ignored constantly. She used to ask me everything and ask me for 建议 when she needed it, now she only 回复 或者 calls me back if it's about her and her own problems. I take her 2AM calls, but she wont take my 4PM calls. I'm really starting to think that she
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doesn't even care about me anymore. I really don't want to lose her, and I just don't know how I'm supposed to go about solving this problem.
LinkKinuzuma13 posted 一年多以前
 LinkKinuzuma13 posted 一年多以前
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Invincible321 said:
你 really need to talk to her about how you're feeling. Explain to her exactly what 你 just explained here. Don't let her walk away from the conversation and make sure 你 do it face-to-face. She'll either realize that how she's treating 你 is wrong 或者 shell continue to act that way and in that situation, 你 just need to drop the friendship. If she won't put any effort in, save yourself the time and 'break up' with her.
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