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My best friend is twisting my words around and spreading mean rumors about throughout the school!! She's even telling 随意 people she doesn't know. Please help me!!!!!!!!

Please! People are stopping me in the the hallway to tell me I'm mean when it's not true.People I sdon;t even know! Help!!!!!!!!!!
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i feel your pian there have been rumors spread about me since i was in first grade and lately they have gotten worse, your not alone on that one
skytail127 posted 一年多以前
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Totally
hatota posted 一年多以前
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j1edwardcullen7 said:
Okay, okay. If anyone knows about rumors being spread about them, I do. 你 have it so incredibly easy. People call me a vampire, because I bite my nails, have dyed black hair, and really pale face. They also call me glowstick, midnight, and who knows what? So many people say so much about me. So I think I can help.
A) She isn't going to do this for no reason: Ask her what 你 did. If 你 already know, then apologize, and tell her that the rumors don't bother you. If she doesn't want to tell you, make sure she knows what I just said, and that whatever 你 two are fighting about, 你 don't know, and not telling 你 isn't going to solve anything.
B) When 你 do find out, then try to talk to her. I can't really help 你 if I don't know why she is mad at you.
C) The people who stop 你 in the halls. Stop THEM and say "Oh, like someone has never told a lie about you. How did you like it? 你 want to make someone else that miserable? 你 know what, don't even say anything, because no comeback is going to be worth your breath. So unless you're going to apologize then I'm going to class. What's it going to be?"
D) If someone is looking at 你 funny, look back, and smile. Then giggle. Let that giggle turn into a laugh. Then the laugh into a chuckle as if you know something about them, and not the otherway around.
E) Another thing 你 can do about the people stopping in the hall, laugh at them and say, "You don't want to talk to me for THAT? Be careful who 你 tell about your infection in your 'special place'." 或者 "You laugh at me for something that small? I'm sorry to hear about that little kid who knocked 你 out." (Or some other vicious rumor that could beat yours) and laugh as 你 walk away.
E) If the rumors just can't be stopped, then ignore them. Laugh everytime 你 hear them.
F) If 你 really miss your friend, tell her that. Don't threaten her with other rumors about her. Make her feel welcome to your friendship, leave it wavering, and hopefully eventually she'll come around.
G) There are many different ways this can go. Give her her space; don't shove your distress in her face.

Let me know if there is anything else I can do. :) Hope this helps.
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posted 一年多以前 
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Thats really helpful! I didn't even ask the 问题 and i'm getting alot out of your answer!
daddiesgirl posted 一年多以前
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Deep inside, it probably doesn't make it any easier, and I'm sure it'll still hurt, but this suggestion is wonderful! I tried to vote for 'best answer', but my computer won't let me do that either.
TheCountess posted 一年多以前
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that is really good 建议
samoangirl96 posted 一年多以前
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Superfan2music said:
If u wanna squash thes horrible rumours, act the opposite of the rumours and pretend 你 dont care its hard i know, but people soon realize its not true and leave u alone
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posted 一年多以前 
amcas97 said:
I've been through the exact same thing. I 迷失 a diffrent mutual friend because of this. She was telling all my 老友记 that i was talking about them behind my back, mostly through text messages. When i 说 "i want to see these texts" ONE of my 老友记 made up with me. Eventually i 说 enough is enough. I had gotten threatened and luckily a peer mediator happened to be right 下一个 to me and she kept me from being beaten up. I had to get the school, my parents, and the girls mom involved. She claimed i 偷了 stuff from her and i was doing a bunch of crazy stuff. Shes still not my friend and luckily most people ended up believing me. But 你 need to take stuff into your own hands and confront her about it. If 你 need to get sum1 involved, 由 all means, do.
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posted 一年多以前 
ToEkNeE said:
你 说 your BEST FRIEND? Wtf? What kinda best friend would do that? She/he obviously isn't your friend otherwise he/she wouldn't be doing that. Confront your alleged "best friend". Confront them.
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posted 一年多以前 
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um, she WAS. Before all of this happened.
geekmeister34 posted 一年多以前
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Gotcha. I was gonna say. But confront them. Get all up in their face and tell her what's up with all the shit she's pulling.
ToEkNeE posted 一年多以前
Miranda-Cullen said:
this is gonna sound mean but when someone starts a rumor about me i makeup an even worse rumor and i am good 老友记 with my skools gossip so she can spread it to the whole skool in about two hours then everyone is talking about them and they forget about me
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posted 一年多以前 
Goth-Girl-36 said:
all i got is if they sperd rumors about u sperd romurs about them 嘿 dont take my 建议 i mean all i got are two finds the whole school is againest me(to now 更多 about me go to link)
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posted 一年多以前 
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no.that is not the right way to go.dont stoop to her level.
teamsalvatore98 posted 一年多以前
teamsalvatore98 said:
stop.breathe.lie down.sheesh.do 你 know its your "friend"?are 你 SURE?if it is tell her what 你 think about it and if she doesnt stop,dont talk to her.give her the cold shoulder.she will eventually learn her lesson.and if she doesnt,dont even look at her.
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 stop.breathe.lie down.sheesh.do 你 know its your "friend"?are 你 SURE?if it is tell her what 你 think about it and if she doesnt stop,dont talk to her.give her the cold shoulder.she will eventually learn her lesson.and if she doesnt,dont even look at her.
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but whatever 你 do,DONT spread rumrs about anyone else.its not cool and rumors can REALLY hurt.
teamsalvatore98 posted 一年多以前
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your so right cousin
JustinBieber007 posted 一年多以前
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wow u r a weirdooo
teamsalvatore98 posted 一年多以前
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wow ur weird
teamsalvatore98 posted 一年多以前
SkylarStrait said:
that doesnt really sound much like a friend and u shpuld just tell people the truth
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posted 一年多以前 
jasminevillages said:
well coming from me if your bff is gonna twist your words around and spread rumors then dont be her 或者 his bff anymore becuz your better than that and 你 dont need a bff like that
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JustinBieber007 said:
ask her to stop spreading rumors !!!
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awesomebrowny said:
Tell the principal!!

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posted 一年多以前 
skytail127 said:
ive recently been having trouble with rumors too, what i do is ignor them, maybe corecting the people who are asking honest questions, and about your friend, ask her about it and decide what to do from that, but in my opinion, she seems like a bad friend, one thats not worth your friendship, i would ignore her and find a true friend if i were you
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posted 一年多以前 
mudear said:
For one this "friend" of yours sounds like a real jerk. So i would stop talking to her if I were you. And for two, ignore everyone. If it gets out of control tell the principle 或者 someone in charge. I can see how this is hard for 你 but 你 have to do something about it. This could help you.
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posted 一年多以前 
jeftelover said:
beat the hell out of her!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
tell her that if she dosent stop then your
gonna kick her fucken 屁股 and drop it in the
tiolet!
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 beat the hell out of her!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! tell her that if she dosent stop then your gonna kick her fucken 屁股 and drop it in the tiolet!
posted 一年多以前 
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哈哈
StarGirl1721 posted 一年多以前
writer67 said:
she is not your best friend, and no its not 你 its another of the same name, so back tfo. 你 got better things to do with time;-]
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posted 一年多以前 
jordan123456 said:
ive been through the same situation,you dont need to prove anything to anyone;just believe in yourself your beetter then that .. just hope 你 work it out xx
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posted 一年多以前 
low--- said:
i would catch her after school and start like screaming in her face!! My friend was always talking to my other friend behind my back. SO, i told her Why is she doing this? She just shrugged. I Gave her the mad face and ran/walk (i walk REAAALLYY fast when i'm mad) then i got home, thought about it, Relaxed, and just forgave her.
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