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j1edwardcullen7 said:
Okay, okay. If anyone knows about rumors being spread about them, I do. 你 have it so incredibly easy. People call me a vampire, because I bite my nails, have dyed black hair, and really pale face. They also call me glowstick, midnight, and who knows what? So many people say so much about me. So I think I can help. A) She isn't going to do this for no reason: Ask her what 你 did. If 你 already know, then apologize, and tell her that the rumors don't bother you. If she doesn't want to tell you, make sure she knows what I just said, and that whatever 你 two are fighting about, 你 don't know, and not telling 你 isn't going to solve anything. B) When 你 do find out, then try to talk to her. I can't really help 你 if I don't know why she is mad at you. C) The people who stop 你 in the halls. Stop THEM and say "Oh, like someone has never told a lie about you. How did you like it? 你 want to make someone else that miserable? 你 know what, don't even say anything, because no comeback is going to be worth your breath. So unless you're going to apologize then I'm going to class. What's it going to be?" D) If someone is looking at 你 funny, look back, and smile. Then giggle. Let that giggle turn into a laugh. Then the laugh into a chuckle as if you know something about them, and not the otherway around. E) Another thing 你 can do about the people stopping in the hall, laugh at them and say, "You don't want to talk to me for THAT? Be careful who 你 tell about your infection in your 'special place'." 或者 "You laugh at me for something that small? I'm sorry to hear about that little kid who knocked 你 out." (Or some other vicious rumor that could beat yours) and laugh as 你 walk away. E) If the rumors just can't be stopped, then ignore them. Laugh everytime 你 hear them. F) If 你 really miss your friend, tell her that. Don't threaten her with other rumors about her. Make her feel welcome to your friendship, leave it wavering, and hopefully eventually she'll come around. G) There are many different ways this can go. Give her her space; don't shove your distress in her face. Let me know if there is anything else I can do. :) Hope this helps.
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