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One mistake and now everyone at school knows...

I fell asleep in the same 床, 床上 as someone's bf...they've been dating for 2 years and he's cheated before. I know that was wrong but I didn't think anything of it cause all we did was sleep! I shouldn't have put myself in that position because now people think we did shit and everyone knows and I'm scared to back to school...help?
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Well, I'm not good at giving advice, but I think 你 should ignore it at first. If it gets 更多 out of hand, just tell them straight up that it was an accident and get the dude to tell them too. This isn't the best advice, but I hope it helps.
stramming posted 一年多以前
 franny_potter posted 一年多以前
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techlover321 said:
I think that 你 should go to school and confront the people who think that 你 did something and tell them the true story. 你 shouldn't have to be afraid of going to school because of the way some people took your actions. :) 你 know, a famous person 说 "no one can make 你 feel inferior without your consent." This means no one can force 你 to feel bad about anything unless 你 let them. So, I think 你 should stand up for yourself and tell what really happened because no one deserves to feel worthless of they don't deserve it. But if its just a small rumour, then ignore it :) I hope this helps! :)
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posted 一年多以前 
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But it's gonna be everyone against me
franny_potter posted 一年多以前
writer67 said:
well for one u have done nothing wrong , so dont punish urself even more, for sleeping. u do not someones slops , as u have ur eyes set apon someone else. but u fell asleep before him as u was in there 由 urself when u went to sleep , its not ur fault to wake up with someone ,whom happens to b a freinds bf. dont be scared for u havent done anything wrong. and stand ur ground. why would u want someone who has fooled around. stand proud, i know many will judge u,and add to it. but who knows u may have had a drink spike, which made u pass out , but u did notihing wrong, okay;-]

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Renesmee_08 said:
Don't be afraid of the truth.If all 你 did was sleep ,then there's nothing to be ashamed of .Tell people the true story.If they don't believe 你 that's their problem ,NOT yours.As long as they know the truth feel relieved.Ignore them pretend as if nothing ever happened.After a few weeks people will forget about it,but remember there's no guarantee.Do your best to ignore them.If people keep bringing 你 down ,remember they took the time out of their pathetic lives to think about you.Come up with a cool comeback.Every time the people tell 你 或者 ask 你 about it casually say," I didn't know 你 cared."
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posted 一年多以前 
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The girlfriend also sits right in front of me in one of my classes, and all of her 老友记 are in that class too, what do I do about that?
franny_potter posted 一年多以前
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This popped into my head.Its the best 建议 I could give you. Glad I could help .If 你 ever need 更多 建议 或者 anything else,I' here for you!
Renesmee_08 posted 一年多以前
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Don't worry.Stand tall.Act proud
Renesmee_08 posted 一年多以前
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