回答这一问题

建议 问题

How do i deal with people being jealous of me?

There is this band called one direction (im sure atleast a few people have heard of them)and they have a 音乐会 in my hometown on april the 18th. Everybody at my school is absoloutly in 爱情 with one direction (i go to an all girls school), people were crying their eyes out all 日 cuz they didnt get tickets to see them..(cuz theyre sold out) Anyway I DID get tickets (i know i 说 theyre sold out, but my parents are disabled and the convention centre always reserve seats for the disabled)and i 发布 the message on 脸谱 that i got tickets (i didnt boast 或者 anything it was just a statement),anyway i got a whole bunch of 评论 either saying 'your so lucky' 或者 'I dont like 你 anymore :(' and those were coming from people who i thought were my friends. :( And even though i explained the circumstances of why i got tickets, people still kept saying mean things, what should i do?
 katlovesbtr posted 一年多以前
next question »

建议 答案

Shadowmarioking said:
Okay, first off, RELAX. Take a few deep breathes, and try to regain composure. Clear your head, if 你 will.

Yes, it appears the people who 评论 are somewhat jealous of you. But, 你 know what else they're doing? Overreacting. It's just a concert; it's not the end of the world. Just because they won't get to go at this very moment doesn't mean that they'll never get to go in their lives.

I'd say to ignore the people's jealously and try your best to 移动 on from the situation. Go to the 音乐会 even. Try your best not to go into detail about it though. Try saying "Oh, the 音乐会 was pretty good" 或者 "That was an alright 显示 that they did. I liked it". Too much enthusiasm may make things in this situation worse, so it's best to avoid doing something like "DAT WAS THE BEST! :D I'm so thrilled" 或者 "AWESOME. I LOVED ONE DIRECTION'S SHOW."

That's all I can say. I did my best to help as well. I'm not so keen on giving out advice.
select as best answer
posted 一年多以前 
next question »