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Chibi-Baka3 said:
There's a difference between losing family and friends, and even those really close to you. It's all 由 how close 你 are to the person; usually the most pain will be felt towards immediate family, spouses/boyfriends/girlfriends, children and/or siblings, etc. I'm finding some of this to be a bit confusing to me, so I'm going to hazard a guess here: did 你 have an online relationship? 你 speak of your boyfriend supposedly dying, but then 你 say you're not even sure. I would guess most likely. As for this new guy that 你 found, there are two possibilities: it could be him, 或者 it could be mere coincidence. But if 你 talk to this new person a bit 更多 and find that too many things are similar are between him and your boyfriend (and I mean 你 can FEEL that it's him -- none of us can have the feeling to help 你 out, because it depends on YOU), then ask him about it. Joking about death is not funny, it's a serious matter. 你 should never, under any circumstances, joke about it. And on this website, it's quite common for someone to fake their death to get attention. If this person ends up to be him, then 你 need to tell him these things and talk to him. Whether 或者 not he was trying to get attention -- 或者 just trying to start anew -- is no valuable reason to fake that. It's childish and, overall, arrogant. As for this pain of yours, I'll have to say that time heals all of your wounds. It's hard, but 你 have to pull through it. Have some 老友记 and family help 你 through it, and don't ever be afraid to 显示 your true emotions. It doesn't mean you're weak; don't ever think that. What people would say is weak about someone is their own burdens -- they deal with it too, but place it on others to seem superior. If it's not about weakness and it's just about pride, 吞, 燕子 it down so 你 can be helped. There's no shame in crying and feeling terrible about something, because it's part of life. Those who don't see it will have to see it sooner 或者 later, and their ignorance will only come back to bite. I hope that this helps 你 out. Good luck to you, and I hope that 你 get better.
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