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Chibi-Baka3 said:
I've had those problems before, so hopefully 你 feel a little better knowing that others have had this dilemma as well.
First off, one of the many warnings about guys: make sure that they're not only nice to you. 你 don't want those types. If he's truly only rude to those he doesn't get along with because of a true, honest-to-goodness problem in the past, then that's fine. 你 certainly wouldn't like one who doesn't get along with your friends, correct?
Moving forward, don't worry about rejections. Most of the time, if your 老友记 believe that he's liked 你 for a while, then 你 have an excellent chance of being with this special someone. Go on and give it a shot; a friend's eyes are not jaded, thus they are mostly correct about their notions. I was too much of a coward myself to tell the guy I liked the truth, but my friend helped me out. It ended up that he liked me back. 你 have a great chance, so don't think otherwise, alright?
Also, it's normal to feel rejection. It's fine for 你 to feel that way; it's always a scary thing. Don't take this as a way to scare you, but even if things don't work out, it's not the end of the world. He'll still be your friend -- guys really appreciate the honesty and confidence that a girl has in telling them the truth. They also like it when girls are straightforward. In other words, don't use hints 或者 write/say anything long. That is, unless he's the type that likes poems and letters and such. Most of the time, however, honesty and straightforwardness will always pull through.
I hope that you'll be able to tell him soon. 你 don't have to do it alone, either -- have a friend help 你 walk up to him and say it.
P.S. Your problem is not "pathetic", so don't have low self-esteem/confidence. If 你 have anything to say, go on and say what 你 need to. I, along with every other helpful soul on this spot, will be there to help you.
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