am i just over reacting??

When it comes to big projects and assessments, it's normal for someone to want to go overboard. Projects and such are often for a lot of points, which can boost up your grade; who wouldn't want to do their best?

I think that your friend should calm down and just go with what you've done. Think about it: it's not for something fancy, and it's not for a ball/gala, some other gathering, etc. It's just for school, and I think just 展示 the effort 你 put into it should be enough.

Although, I don't think that it would hurt adding a 移动 或者 two. As one of my teachers have 说 to my class, she doesn't expect us to remember something that we had just learned. We work on it everyday and then, at some point, it will just click. 你 don't have to do absolutely everything that your friend had suggested, but some of them should satisfy her. Make sure that it's easy for all of 你 to understand and remember. If 你 have a lot of time to work on this, 你 should be fine. If 你 don't, try to compromise once more.

Don't explode, but explain to her calmly that saying something "is crap" isn't good communication skills. She might say that it's some sort of opinion, but there is such a thing as abusing it (which is why 你 often see/hear people say "It was just my opinion~"). Now for a little 更多 of my opinions: I think that 你 were a tad bit harsh on her. Sure, I understand that 你 would get mad since 你 put a lot of time into that dance, but losing your composure over something doesn't do well in communicating. Composure is a good thing to keep and maintain.

你 should both apologize. I know that 你 don't want to talk to her and that 你 think it's mostly her fault, but I didn't say apologize for the whole dance thing. Just say that you're sorry for yelling, but that 你 can't apologize about what happened as a whole.

Hopefully this will prove as useful to you.

Things like this is an ordinary are mostly common in the life off friendship . Me and my bestfriend always like that .
but,there was one time when the we're in had a fight . Our leaders were both BFF's since three,then just because a little misunderstanding thing .Then suddenly , one big girl group turned into two small group . My best friend chose the smart girl group ,while I chose the other girl (she's my cousin BTW ) .We hadn't talked for months ,and i have to admit it i did feel a bit lonely.One 日 we decided to meet secretly .Then we decided to end this thing .Fortunately , the two girls were feeling lonely .Sooo, in conclusion ,its an odinary thing to have fights in friendship .Don't worry in a 日 或者 a few weeks 你 and youre friend will feel a bit lonely and then unsuprisingly,you two will tell that 你 both feel lonely without each other .

no u r not over reacting u have the task as leader. but in a democracy much is decided 由 puting to a vote, and im sure the group would like to go out with a bang and good grade. but the practice of to much would upset the grade, so to keep the peace, let her do the solo to finish up, so all the preasure can b just on her. after all she want the greates grade, and the most attention, but she has no right to say its crap after all the hard work everyone has had to put in. the best plays in time have started being short sharp and shiny, only when there are encores 或者 repeat performances are they added to and extended, but b nice, u r the leader in this group and many could learn from ur example, but call a meet in front of ur group, to let all kno she is to finish with a solo , that she alone will practice, and perform the group to see if it passes, keep ur chin up, many leaders have had to do so much they havent wanted to do, and they will never plaese all, so get out there and shake a leg, let her go out and break a leg,not.;-] let her think she won and do appoligise, but let her know u r in charge, and b firm, gota b cruel to be kind sometimes;-]