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boy troubles :(((

ok, so one night my bff came 2 stay the night and we were on the phone with my bf. she wuz play hitting me and he wuz threatining 2 slap her but he wuz playin around... but on monday, we were in the practice room where u practice instruments and stuff at school, and he hit her in the nose with a 音乐 stand :( he says it wuz an accident, but her nose wuz blue and purpleish, and it hurt her so bad she cried... ppl say it wuz on purpose so i broke up with him... but he still loves me and idk wut 2 do :( plz help if u can :( idk who 2 believe....
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im warning u dont trust ppl
monkeyrockla posted 一年多以前
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i need 2 add more: he sed he meant 2 'poke her' with it, not hit her
0evilcookie0 posted 一年多以前
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ah, still hitting on the nose instead of tapping thts a tad much. do wat i 说 on my 评论
monkeyrockla posted 一年多以前
 0evilcookie0 posted 一年多以前
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monkeyrockla said:
It was probably an acsident. Pull him aside and ask for his HONEST awner. But be kinnda mead (seriose) about it
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 It was probably an acsident. Pull him aside and ask for his HONEST awner. But be kinnda mead (seriose) about it
posted 一年多以前 
Chibi-Baka3 said:
Sounds like quite the predicament, mi amiga. I've been in situations such as this, and it's always hard to see who is telling the complete truth.

Some people mean to tell the truth -- they really do try -- but their instinct makes them change the story either 由 a little 或者 a lot, depending on how much they don't want to get in trouble. It's like a child telling their parent the truth: if the parents are usually understanding, then they would most likely tell the whole truth. If their parents are the opposite, everything will be twisted. 你 can usually tell if people are lying, so sometimes you'll have to use observation and instinctive feelings to figure it out. Don't let yourself be swayed so easily 由 feelings, however; this can possibly lead to the wrong decisions.

Well, from what I'm being told here, it doesn't sound much like an accident. This is just my view, however, so make sure that 你 take that in mind. If her nose was blue and purple, as 你 have described, I don't think it was much of an accident. I've been hit plenty of times on accident, but no one has ever turned something of mine, such as my nose, any other color. Maybe red because of irritation and bodily harm, but that's all. It's good to have witnesses to tell 你 what happened; however, sometimes it's not as helpful as 你 think. The only thing that's going to work (from what I think, anyway) is confrontation. 你 need to take your 老友记 aside from each other and see what both of them say. If there's an inconsistency, try to see if 你 can find out who's lying and who's telling the truth.

I hope that this helps out in some way for you.
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posted 一年多以前 
writer67 said:
net time tell him , 你 will deal with the women and he can deal with the men, lucky he didnt get expelled too,n i hope ur freind can forgive, 或者 get a free shot;-]

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