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Chibi-Baka3 said:
I think that it's 安全 to say that we've all been there at some point: depression always comes to even the most happiest of people. It's a stage that everyone will go through and, depending on the person, it can linger 或者 be brief. In order to get rid of depression, there are countless things that 你 can try to get rid of it. 你 can hang out with other 老友记 and get out of the house; let yourself out into the sunlight. Get it while it's out, being as winter is approaching. It won't happen immediately, but if it doesn't work after a 月 或者 so, then maybe 你 should go to a counselor and see what they think. I can only tell 你 so much, since I'm not a counselor (yet?).
I suppose I should hazard the guess that, because 你 called her a "fake friend", you're no longer 老友记 with this person. That's a good thing. Onto your guyfriend, I think that 你 should talk to him about this. It's understandable that hearing someone likes 你 is big news, but he shouldn't take it in the way that he is. He shouldn't feel awkward, angry, upset, etc about what he's been told; at least, that's what I believe. 你 说 that 你 used to be best friends, and best 老友记 should be able to understand one another. There's really no reason for him to hate 你 just because 你 have a crush on him -- that's a bit immature, in my eyes. At least if he feels differently, he should still respect 你 and stay friends.
I hope that this helps in some way. Good luck to you, and don't give up.
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