am i the bad friend??

No, you're not the bad friend. If anything, that "friend" of yours seems like the bad one; what kind of friend would laugh at 你 for a phobia that is, in your words, not a laughing matter? And what kind of friend would want to spill one's secrets? That's something that would be unforgivable, in my opinion.

If anything, I think 你 should cut ties with her unless she decides to change for good. 你 need to let her know that you're not going to stand for this; I don't know if you've already done this but, if 你 have, then give her one last warning. 你 gave her a lot of patience, and she gave nothing equivalent back to you. Just stick with your other 老友记 and have a good time with them -- 你 really don't need to deal with someone like her.

If she does decide to change her ways, then good for the both of you. But remember to tell her that (if this change really happens), if she slips up again, you're going to take action and cut the ties.

你 are not a bad friend.Its your friend who is being disrespectful.talk to her about how 你 feel she has been treating you.If she doesn't listen to you.than she does not care about your feelings.It would be best to distance yourself from her for a little bit.I knew girls at the age of pre teen who are like this.It might just be a phase.Tell her 你 like being 老友记 with her;you just want to be treated with 更多 respect.hope I helped:)

Stop talking to all of them till 你 guys calm down. that way 你 have time to think about stuff and not just lash out.

Nope, she is. She sounds horrible, and she treats 你 badly. Loose her.

no u aint the bad friend, ur just a sad friend. those 你 tell your secrets to 或者 phobias shouldnt laugh 或者 disclose what they have been told 由 another in confidentiality. but at least your finding out how much of a true freind they are. still be friends, but share less, and keep secrets away from those that dont deserve the special part of you. but 你 may have to find something else to do with your time, mayb a part time job, but chloe will always be chloe, and she is still your friend, not as close if she is going to call 你 bad, true freinds understand, alike one. like soul mates, and good that 你 你 take it like a man and give it back like one.your opinion like others is valuable, just need others that feel the same, and who allow opinions, of another, in the true spirit of friendship. good luck anyways. sounds like chloe needs to be on probation;-]