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Chibi-Baka3 said:
你 most definitely SHOULD NOT run away. Running away doesn't solve anything, in this case both physically and mentally. 你 need to speak to your parents about this problem, and that 你 don't appreciate it when they start yelling at 你 when you're merely trying to ask a simple question. If 你 keep living like that, the problem will stretch for not only your family life, but with friends; your subconscious will remember those times and make 你 stay silent. Being silent isn't good if 你 want to know something, and everyone has a right to be informed.
If 你 try to 问题 something on whatever it is you're curious about, and they walk away, tell them that they need to stop. I mean it literally -- they're your parents. They should know that it's impolite, along with hurtful.
I don't believe that they want to make 你 cry. It's a stage during life where, during puberty -- another way to say, "awkward stages" -- one begins to get depressed. It's common to think of depressing thoughts, such as what you're believing right now. I know all about it; I'm in that problem right now, so don't feel like you're the only one in this situation. It helps a bit to know that there are others out there who have the same problems.
If things don't work out, I suggest talking to 老友记 或者 other family members that 你 trust. Another alternative, whether you're not comfortable with them for some reason 或者 it's simply not possible, is going to a counselor. It's best to get rid of these problems before they decide to get worse. It's just my recommendation, though, so do whatever makes 你 更多 comfortable. I hope that this helps in some way.
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