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Chibi-Baka3 said:
Personally, I think that she sounds like a normal mom. 嘿 now, don't start scowling at this and press the back button, because I know the first sentence is something 你 did NOT want to hear. Just read on for a moment, if 你 please. It's a normal parent thing for them to tell 你 to do your homework, then 移动 right on to the chores. I know that you've already done so, but 你 have to try talking to her again. Because she's been out of school for who knows how long (I don't want to say "a long time" 或者 anything, as that would seem offending), she probably won't remember the stress. 你 have to let her know that it's tiring to do all that homework, along with the chores that are piled up right after it. You're still young, and 你 shouldn't have to grow up so quickly. 你 have your own life and things to do, and I think 你 should make that known. For the manners and such, inform her that you're 表演 this way because the two of 你 aren't on the same wavelength. It's easy for someone to get into a fight with another because they don't agree with their 查看 on something -- that is, if the wrong words are chosen. But what I'm explaining is 更多 "attitude"; make sure that 你 and your mother aren't confused between the two of them. I'm sure she doesn't want 你 to "drop dead", as 你 put it. She's your mother and just wants to take care of you, even if 你 don't seem to want to look at it in that way. The running away bit 你 put in there reminded me of my own childhood; oh how I would imagine doing that all the time, just because something didn't happen in my favor. I'm not saying this for you, I'm merely reminiscing. Moving forward, don't go with that idea. As my friend had told me, sadness leads to anger. Anger, like the other side of the coin, would lead to sadness; it's vice versa, as I'm sure 你 probably noticed there. It would be natural for a parent to feel panic about their child missing, which leads to hysterics. If 你 were to come back and say to her that this is her sort of punishment, she would most likely get angry. Being as you're the child, an inferiority complex would be stricken. In other words: they're the adults, thus they have the authority. Any actions 或者 words against it...well, things most likely won't turn out the way 你 wanted it.
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