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My mom is being a total *****

She told me to do my Homework, and then dragged me out to do the dishes. She pissed at me about my attitude and my manners, and she thinks I need to go o boarding school. My manners, pfft. Who do 你 think taught me my manners? Her. Who told me to do my HW? Her. Who want m to drop dead? Her. I'm thinking about running away to teach her a lesson. To dissapear in the middle of the night, and come back in the afternoon to make her realize that she's being a horrible parent. But I know that's not th right way to solve this. I've already talked o her about this, and she's pretending like it's my fault(it's not). Any 建议 to make her see what she's doing wrong?
 LinkKinuzuma13 posted 一年多以前
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Chibi-Baka3 said:
Personally, I think that she sounds like a normal mom. 嘿 now, don't start scowling at this and press the back button, because I know the first sentence is something 你 did NOT want to hear. Just read on for a moment, if 你 please.

It's a normal parent thing for them to tell 你 to do your homework, then 移动 right on to the chores. I know that you've already done so, but 你 have to try talking to her again. Because she's been out of school for who knows how long (I don't want to say "a long time" 或者 anything, as that would seem offending), she probably won't remember the stress. 你 have to let her know that it's tiring to do all that homework, along with the chores that are piled up right after it. You're still young, and 你 shouldn't have to grow up so quickly. 你 have your own life and things to do, and I think 你 should make that known.

For the manners and such, inform her that you're 表演 this way because the two of 你 aren't on the same wavelength. It's easy for someone to get into a fight with another because they don't agree with their 查看 on something -- that is, if the wrong words are chosen. But what I'm explaining is 更多 "attitude"; make sure that 你 and your mother aren't confused between the two of them.

I'm sure she doesn't want 你 to "drop dead", as 你 put it. She's your mother and just wants to take care of you, even if 你 don't seem to want to look at it in that way.

The running away bit 你 put in there reminded me of my own childhood; oh how I would imagine doing that all the time, just because something didn't happen in my favor. I'm not saying this for you, I'm merely reminiscing. Moving forward, don't go with that idea. As my friend had told me, sadness leads to anger. Anger, like the other side of the coin, would lead to sadness; it's vice versa, as I'm sure 你 probably noticed there. It would be natural for a parent to feel panic about their child missing, which leads to hysterics. If 你 were to come back and say to her that this is her sort of punishment, she would most likely get angry. Being as you're the child, an inferiority complex would be stricken. In other words: they're the adults, thus they have the authority. Any actions 或者 words against it...well, things most likely won't turn out the way 你 wanted it.
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posted 一年多以前 
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Oh it's been a LOOOOOONG time. My mom is 50 yrs old.
LinkKinuzuma13 posted 一年多以前
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Yeah she sounds normal. my mum is always going on about manners. she would be a 婊子, 子 if she was making fun of what 你 do/say/look like 或者 purposely making 你 in trouble. running away sounds immature something i would have done when i was 13 which i think is stupid now.
vampiressJazz posted 一年多以前
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At least 你 说 it in a NICE way... Ahem (justleeelee)And thx for the 建议
LinkKinuzuma13 posted 一年多以前
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@ LinkKinuzma13 be nice, 哈哈 Xd jeez people cant we all just get along? *gets hit in the head 由 a book*
RiderOfTempest posted 一年多以前
monkeyrockla said:
Well urr mom has da biggest effect on ur life. Manners? Thats stupid. Not tio bring u down but if shes sending ya to boarding school cuz of that? She just duznt want ya. Srry. Thts my opinion
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posted 一年多以前 
Me_Iz_Here said:
Put up with it. Your mom is being a normal mom. This is what moms do. Don't overreact,
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posted 一年多以前 
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I can't believe 你 guys... I'm not overreacting here. SHE is.
LinkKinuzuma13 posted 一年多以前
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^It's not like we're just making this shit up. 你 ARE overreacting, it's no big deal.
justleeelee posted 一年多以前
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你 haven't met my mom... >.>
LinkKinuzuma13 posted 一年多以前
RiderOfTempest said:
I have the same situation. Its not fun. I HATE when my mom acts bitchy! Don't be afraid to say it XD come on! "MY MOM CAN BE A BITCH!!!!"
*clears throat* anyway....when my mom tells me to do HW then dishes, then to sweep the floors Cinderella, and things I...usually dont do anything. She yells at me for having a frown on my face! What are we supposed to be damn HAPPY your shouting? DO we have to SMILE while we work? Its unreasonable....but most moms are like that. Manners my ass....
Anyway, I'm sorry, but 你 have to wait out the storm. She doesnt get you, 更多 than likey. But she probably cares about you.Thats what I think of my mom. I 爱情 her, like mother-daughter-love. But she doesnt get me, and I dont get her either. She cares about "whats best" but has almost no concern for your...enjoyment in life.
Maybe 你 could try staying out of the house as long as 你 could. Go out anytime 你 can, and get your chores and homework done earlier, so she has nothing to yell about.
I know, 你 must be thinking "WTF? I'm not doing that!" I would be too XD but its something to chew on right? If nothing else works, 你 could do the disapearing thing, and get your own revenge, but as an 建议 Club member I must give 你 good advice.
DONT run away. DONT come back the 下一个 morning. DONT try to tech her a lesson *wink, wink* but whatever 你 do, I hope it turns out alright! XD
This wasnt really advice, was it? Sorry..hehe. ^^
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posted 一年多以前 
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Thanks. It's better than most of the 建议 i've been getting! ^^It is good advice, and yeah, "MY MOM CAN BE A BITCH!" Sh cares nothing about my enjoyment, like 你 said. But the thing is, sh thinks she understands me, but she doesn't. She's one of the people farthest from understanding who I am, and that's why I'm so fucking mad at her.
LinkKinuzuma13 posted 一年多以前
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Its a terrible feeling to know your own mother doesnt know 你 enough to try and get along....its hard, to tell 你 the truth. it gets harder everyday to put up with. :/ and thanks ^^ I hope i helped. And thanks for adding! Talk to me anytime!
RiderOfTempest posted 一年多以前
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Thanks, and you're welcome. =)
LinkKinuzuma13 posted 一年多以前
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^^ I'll add 你 back....
RiderOfTempest posted 一年多以前
vampiressJazz said:
Unless she calls 你 fat 或者 ugly 或者 makes some other unessacery 评论 then there's nothing wrong about it, parents especially mums always go on about manners...it's a fact of life.
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posted 一年多以前 
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She calls me names alright. But thank 你 for not being a jerk about giving me the advice. I appreciate it. :)
LinkKinuzuma13 posted 一年多以前
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You're welcome ^-^. i hope she realises that she is kind of a 婊子, 子 if she's used/ing that language against 你
vampiressJazz posted 一年多以前
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She will soon enough. >:3
LinkKinuzuma13 posted 一年多以前
2dolphn97 said:
Dont run away. Solves nothing. Get pissed, deal with it, got up to your room and blow off steam and do shit that 你 want and get over it. I mean I get what 你 mean as I am a teenager myself but still, unless it's horrible it wil all blow over 由 the 下一个 day
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posted 一年多以前 
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Thanks for the advice, but unfortunately, that's not how it works with my mom...
LinkKinuzuma13 posted 一年多以前
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Usually parents get on 你 about stuff and yeah you'll be mad for a few hours but then there is something else and 你 forget about your anger 或者 it blows off *shrugs* good luck hun
2dolphn97 posted 一年多以前
toycat3221 said:
hon, she loves you, she gave birth to you, if she is being mean, ask her about it,it may be PMS 或者 something,you never know
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Thanks,for,the answer
LinkKinuzuma13 posted 一年多以前
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