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How do I get boy who hates me 爱情 me?(pllzzz read desprtion)

Theres this guy, that I've liked for like a year, and ever since hes moved here, hes hated me, and for some reason I 爱情 him, and last 年 he prentended to shoot me in the side of the head, hes been dating this girl this is thier 2nd 年 dating him, but I don't understand why do I 爱情 him! I've 迷失 all my friends, because when he prentended to shoot me I've been in depression, and these last 2 weeks I've been having sucide thoughts HELP ME!!!!!!!!!
 1234567890q posted 一年多以前
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PoweredByBacon said:
Okay, so the info 你 provided me with a hidden message. Heres my theory: He likes you, but doesnt want anyone to know, so hes dating someone else and pretending to shoot 你 so nobody thinks he does. First, has ever 说 he hates you?(to your face) Look, there is this guy that i thought hated me. i recently found him on 脸谱 and he requested me so I 说 yes(who cares,I moved?)and he 说 he would do anything to see me again and he texted me that A LOT. But I want nothing to do with him, in 4th grade I stabbed him with a catus needle-and its still there. so, there is a great chance he likes you, and if not dont sweat it, as my sister would say..'Tnhere are other lions in the den' ;D
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posted 一年多以前 
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Yes hes has told me in my face I just don't know why I like him thanx I voted 你 for best answer
MMHenderson posted 一年多以前
Chibi-Baka3 said:
There are things in this world that will be beyond our control. We can change its shape and bring it into another form, but it will never change what it really is inside.

There's a bit of confusion here, however; why is it that he hates you? Is it something that any of 你 have done to bring on those feelings? If nothing has been inflicted, then it must be some sort of psychological reason. I don't believe that someone will just hate another for no reason. 你 really need to talk to him about this, and explain to him that all of this is unnecessary and immature. 你 both need to take what's happening now and push it within the far reaches of the past.

爱情 is a confusing thing as well; I should bring this up since I have mentioned such feelings recently. This is something that we really don't expect, and can happen in the strangest ways and times. But 你 really must think to yourself: do 你 really 爱情 him, 或者 is this a mere crush? Think long and hard, and don't just immediately think that it can't be fake. I've never 说 so, but this is something that should be taken seriously (in my point of view). It's a fact that, when 你 have your first crush, 你 will do everything in your power to make it happen and keep it alive. You're going to feel reluctant when I say this, but maybe it's time that 你 set these feelings aside. 你 don't need to deal with what he's putting 你 through; it's 说 all the time, but 你 really do deserve better.

For that depression thing, I think that 你 should talk with a counselor/psychiatrist. If you're having suicidal thoughts, it should be done immediately, and I mean it. 你 don't want these things to grow 更多 intense, because it brings nothing but bad luck. What good comes if 你 were to kill yourself 或者 hurt yourself in any way? Sit down and talk to your parents about this. Let them know that 你 can't sit around the way 你 are and let this take control. These feelings may be grabbing on tightly to the reigns, but it's not impossible to make them let go.
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posted 一年多以前 
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he hates me cause I'm not 流行的 and hes stuck-up and he shoves me in the hallway and he thinks I'm creepy
MMHenderson posted 一年多以前
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How low of him to do so. Who cares if someone isn't popular? That's their problems, and people like that don't usually lead the best lives. They don't learn anything. You, on the other hand, WILL learn something; much faster and easier than him. Just forget about him, because I don't think he's worth your time.
Chibi-Baka3 posted 一年多以前
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monkeyrockla posted 一年多以前
booyaferry said:
hi I think there is no reason for 你 to do anything insane 或者 reckless for this guy, I've read some other 评论 that left to you,and I figured out that your feelings for him is just because he is cute 或者 something preventative. Deep inside 你 even hate yourself for liking him so much and why he doesn't fall for you.
Here is the thing, girl, keep yourself together and make it through the night,just don't care about what others think, just forget about him, and be yourself. Being yourself isn't easy, trust me, I've been there and it feels like nobody understands me, and they all think that I'm some kinda freak. But I'm not.

When 你 get through this period, 你 would figure out how stupid 你 were a few months 以前 and you'd be very lucky and happy to drop off the burden and let 你 be you.
We girls might fall for lots of boys in different time, but they are not the one so 你 don't have to suffer for them. It's a good thing for sure if he likes 你 just like 你 do for him but it's nothing serious if he doesn't. Take a deep breathe and 移动 on.
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