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Am I conceited?

Hi,
A lot of 你 may recognize me as the one who was irritated 由 a lot of Twilight fans. Well, this problem I have is sort of about Twilight, but basically I just want to know who was right and who was wrong.
你 see, I recently wrote an 文章 where I compared myself to the character Bella Swan. I came up with 46 ways in which we were alike, and I 发布 it. I did recognize one thing that made me sound tacky, and I immediately fixed it. In fact, I constantly fixed a lot of things about my 文章 before finally publishing it. But when I left it alone finally, I received a lot of upsetting comments.
A lot of them 说 that anyone could be like Bella 天鹅 in the ways I wrote, and one person called my 文章 conceited. I honestly don't know where someone can pick this up from, here's the rough draft of my article;

Hi, my name is Ciera, a lot of 你 may know me as sapherequeen. This is my sixth article, and it's completely different from the other ones I made; this one is about the billions of ways in which Bella and I are alike. I swear, it's soo weird. It's like are identical twins 或者 something :D

Ok, here is a small portion of ways we in which we are alike;

1) I am shy
2) I have sweet blood (mosquitoes and other insects like those will constantly bite me)
3) I like to be alone
4) I 爱情 Renesmee > 2
5) I 爱情 Edward
6) I 爱情 Jacob
7) I have 浓情巧克力 brown eyes
8) My parents aren't married
9) I don't usually fit in with a huge crowd
10) A lot of girls were nasty towards me for small (Lauren) and BIG (Rosalie) reasons...
11) Our birthdays are almost exactly a 月 apart, she's September 13th, I'm August 14th :)
12) I'm clumsy
13) I end up bruising everywhere on my body
14) I'm not that fond of the water (sometimes)
15) I would do anything for someone I love....
16) I'm not good with little kids
17) I am very serious
18) I am very smart
19) I like to read a lot
20) I usually find myself 迷失 when a lot of
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no i dont think 你 are :) i think tht person was just jealous :) dnt wry about it :)
stopbullying posted 一年多以前
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agreed
teamsalvatore98 posted 一年多以前
 sapherequeen posted 一年多以前
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monsy38 said:
I think that those people are just big 粉丝 of Bella. A lot of them would give their right arms to be her and they were probably just bothered that 你 might be like her and not them. That's probabl why they called 你 conceinted, because they can't 熊 knowing that there is someone that can compare to her. Don't let it bother you. I'm a twilight 粉丝 to, so i understand that some people are like her and if they are than good for them, just cause 你 say you're like someone doesn't mean you're conceinted.
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posted 一年多以前 
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agreed.
Pinkish1987 posted 一年多以前
Pinkish1987 said:
ur not conceited at all.
ignore such ppl.

OK so im editing and elaborating.

Wht 你 did was 显示 comparisons to urself and a character. I know this sounds stupid but ppl get jealous 由 such small things. Ppl can be petty.
或者 ppl may jus think 'why would so and so compare herself to so and so' and hence get bitchy about it.
1/ u are not conceited at ALL.
2/ dont let randoms make u 问题 urself like this.

:)
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posted 一年多以前 
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Very short. This is not very much advice!
PrettyCure55 posted 一年多以前
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i didnt think i needed to elaborate :S il repost if needs be :)
Pinkish1987 posted 一年多以前
PrettyCure55 said:
你 are not concited. Nobody is. They shouldn't have the right to call 你 that! It should be against the rules of 潮流粉丝俱乐部 for anybody to insult anybody like that! Just don't take it into you. I say what this person is saying to 你 is very rude! 你 are you. 你 don't have to think what they do. Ignore them! Hope I helped!
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posted 一年多以前 
sarabeara said:
Well a lot of those things are very common things, but I don't think you're conceited AT ALL!!! I don't see how comparing yourself to a character can cause people to consider 你 stuck-up...

Just ignore the haters :]
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posted 一年多以前 
Cinders said:
You're not conceited (and I'm not just saying that because I don't like Twilight).

Bella 天鹅 was written to be relatable. She's a template onto which most teenage girls project themselves. That was Meyer's purpose, and one of the reasons the 图书 are so successful.

I don't mean to insult 你 或者 your books, I'm just saying you're not the first girl to find so much in common with Bella Swan. That's all.

Let me give 你 an example...

Consider teenager A. She has brown hair and brown eyes, and her parents are unmarried, and who goes from being unpopular to suddenly very popular. She's clumsy, unrefined, and has a romantic relationship with a boy at her school.

Consider teenager B. She just moved to a new town where most people are polite to her. Her parents are divorced, and she's an only child. Her closest guy friend has a crush on her, but she only has eyes for a man whose much older than her, and, surprise, surprise, a vampire no less.

Which one of the two teenagers I described do 你 think is Bella Swan?



Answer? Neither. Teenager A is Mia from The Princess Diaries. Teenager B is Buffy Summers from Buffy the Vampire Slayer.

Does that help 你 understand my point? This isn't meant to be rude 或者 anything, 或者 to say 你 aren't like Bella. It's just to explain why some people may have rolled their eyes at such a comparison. Beyond Bella, a lot of people see themselves (or try to see themselves) in their 最喜爱的 characters. Often, the reason they hate a character is because they recognize their own character flaws in them. That's why people can get so attached to their 最喜爱的 characters.
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posted 一年多以前 
JazzLover101 said:
Listen from one friend/fan to u 你 aren't conceited 你 are 或者 seem really cool but 你 can't let that person get to 你 trust me :(
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