Why am I ALWAYS compared to my cousins?

I suppose you'll have to 带, 皮带 out the usual "sit down and talk about it" things. Sometimes (key word there) I don't think they work, but in this case, it has to be done.

你 have to let it be known that 你 hate being compared to someone. If you're just as talented as they are, 你 really shouldn't be compared. In fact, your whole family shouldn't be comparing 你 to another family member like that anyway. It can bring on favorites, and no child -- 或者 teen, 你 know what I mean -- should have to go through that. You're probably most likely at that age where you're still going through many changes at once, and that's already stressful enough.

I get pretty mad when someone compares me to another, but it's not done all the time. Simply inform them that 你 loathe it. Nothing's going to change if 你 don't tell them that.

If they still do compare you, then say that maybe 你 don't want to be like them. Everyone in this world is different; NO ONE is exactly the same, no matter what. There's always going to be something that someone's going to compare and contrast with, and doing so with people just isn't a good idea. What fun would the world be if everyone were the same copies?

never mind its d problem wid most of d kids. u shuld not feel down....it my b dat dey r compared 由 u 2....if u feel bad bout it 巢穴, den, 书房 u shuld talk 2 ur parents nd say demm politely dat u dont like 2 b compareedc daey might understand ur prob....

Comparison may be positive 或者 negative its totally on you. Its era of super 显示 off just do 显示 out your skills because talent alone can't do all. And what if your cousins are rich? Reality is that they are rich because their parents are. As i 说 positive n negative so 你 should take it positively as 你 can make attempt to make yourself better. May be 你 have better talent than them and you'll work on those talents there would be no chance of comparison. Deeds speak louder than works so don't talk about this just work :)