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Lonelly.. I feel so lonely... Help!

So, I'm 13 but have never gone out with a guy. There is one guy that I really like but I'm not sure how to tell him. He never answer my texts, and he pokes me in the side. He annoys all the girls in his class and mine. And I'm starting to feel really lonely, not like I have no 老友记 but I've never been told that I'm beautiful 或者 that someone likes me. I'm really starting to feel bad, and my 老友记 only tease me playfully. They have offered tobhooknme up with someone, but they always make it worse. What do I do to stop being so damned lonely?
 WildCherryWolf posted 一年多以前
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Chibi-Baka3 said:
Everyone feels lonely at some point; it's normal. But 你 can't just look at a guy and decide that 你 want to go out with them, merely because 你 can't stand the feeling of being lonely. In my opinion, there would be very little chances of 你 actually liking that person.

You, on the other hand, have someone on your mind that 你 really like. It's not unusual to see a guy annoying other girls -- I'm sure it's for his amusement. They say that if they annoy 你 a lot (or the most out of every other girl), they actually like you. Although, I can't really back this up with personal experiences. What 你 can do is just try to be good 老友记 with him, and then tell him later on how 你 feel. It's hard to say because of the age, but he might appreciate your honesty. If you're too scared to tell him, write it out. 或者 have a friend tell you, if you're really that uncomfortable.

Another way -- not talking about a guy -- is to meet new people in your class. Sometimes it's not that 你 want someone beside you, it's just that 你 want a new 圈, 圈子 of friends. Now I'm not saying that there's something wrong with them, 或者 that I'm suggesting 你 don't like them; I'm merely stating that putting yourself in other peoples' presences can change things.
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MarMar_XigLux said:
You're only 13, for God's sake, no need to rush it. I'm 15 and I've never gone out with a guy before, nor do I plan on going out with someone in the 下一个 3 years.

Anyways; don't take it personally if your 老友记 and that guy act like assholes. Just do what 你 feel is right. Hell, maybe even ask him out yourself.

But don't bug him every 5 seconds; it just makes 你 look clingy and desperate. Also, tell your 老友记 to stop hooking 你 up with 随意 people. It's just unnecessary.

About the "Lonely" part; cheer up. I know this feeling is kind of a 婊子, 子 and it's not easy to stay Optimistic in that kind of situation, but think about it. If your 老友记 aren't supportive and that jerk of a guy is being an ass, wouldn't it be best to fly solo?
I also know how it feels like to think that no one gives a shit about you. It ain't fun, and we both know it. But do 你 really need external encouragement to feel better about yourself?

Source: Personal experience.
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