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老友记 how much do 你 talk about?

Do 你 talk about everything and anything with your best friend 或者 do 你 have subjects 你 stay clear of for reasons such as embarrasement 或者 sensitivity 或者 some other reason. I ask because my friend has suddenly decided there are certain things she does not want me talking about but when I ask for certain subjects to be off limits she takes offence. I don't want to fall out with her as she is probably moving to Spain but the rate its going I think it may happen.
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just make sure u know eachothers boundaries. tell if if theres something she doesnt want u talking about to just tell u nicely. 你 guys are best 老友记 be open communicate tell her u feel alittle bad 或者 whatever she will listen.
neofly posted 一年多以前
 sehdt posted 一年多以前
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BabyBlud said:
It depends on the idividual 老友记 for me. There are two 老友记 i have told everything and anything, knowing they will not judge me 或者 dispise me and will be able to offer hope and support when i feel low when the memories hit me. Other friends, certain things for me are off limits and i respect their decision if they do not feel like telling me anything.
However - if your friend believes she should know everything about you, but does not respect 你 enough to tell 你 everything about her, then i can't see the relationship going anywhere.
你 should tell your friend that 你 respect her decision not to tell 你 things, but she in turn should respect the same of you. If 你 do not want to tell her things, she shouldn't push at 你 或者 become huffy about it, as that is not what a friend is supposed to be.
It could be she justs wants to help, but all the same, she can easily sympathise and encourage and hold 你 up 由 the sidelines not knowing anything, then knowing every little detail.
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thank 你
sehdt posted 一年多以前
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