I have a pretty weird social life..thing..or whatever.Anybody care to shed some light on it?

In a 问题 like this, you'll naturally get mixed results. Not saying this as a bad thing, though; 你 could get 更多 suggestions and opportunities to find out what's really going on.

To me, it sounds as if this boy may like you. If 你 give it a chance, maybe you'll get to see his true side. If 你 don't want to step that far, then just talk with him and say that 你 can be completely honest with each other; there's no need to feel tense 或者 nervous about anything. 你 won't bite each other's heads off. ^^;

And this girl that 你 have talked about... It's hard to say. She may be a little curious of same-gender relationships, 或者 maybe she's just clingy to you. Some 老友记 can be like this, and it could be another natural thing. If it really bothers 你 that much, then 你 have the right to ask her what's going on. I don't mean to suddenly back her into a corner and interrogate her, however. Take things calmly and discuss this, and try to find out why she does these things. If she's merely a clingy person, then be honest and tell her how 你 feel about what she's doing. Be careful, though. 你 don't want to really hurt her feelings.

Let's just take this into account just in case: Let's say that she does like you. It's never happened to me (so I can't explain what 你 may feel), but whatever it is that 你 feel inside, tell her. If you're unable to return her feelings, make sure that it's known lightly. Once again, we don't want to wreck anything and create any bad blood. 你 could tell her that 你 could still be friends, if 你 decide to say so.

I'm going to rewind for a moment just to put a little 更多 thought into things. Going back to the guy that may like you: he might also act "tense and nervous" because of his 最近的 breakup. Maybe something really bad happened between him and his ex, possibly like she was cheating on him. Anyone would be upset with whatever the reason was, however, and their trust in others may diminish. Give it a little time, and he might calm down and 显示 你 who he really is. It's good to be a great friend to him before making a big step.

I hope that this helps.

So, your first question. That boy might like 你 as a friend but its also natural for a guy to become sexually tense around girls...especially in middle school. Maybe, he DOES like 你 或者 wants to hang out 或者 something. Get to know him, get friendly, DONT 交叉, 十字架 his girlfriend 或者 try to get cozy with him UNTIL LATER. He will freak out, trust me. As for the girl, its possible, but 你 might get the wrong idea though. Is she your friend? If she is, 或者 isn't, POLITELY ask her to stop touching you. If she doesn't take it well, speak to your school counselor about her. Dont give names 或者 报道 her. BUT if she gets extreme, like 接吻 and *ahem* touching, 你 know what to do. Hope I helped!! xx