Confused About My Sexuality?

I doubt very much 你 actually need to see a therapist. Everyone gets confused about their sexuality at some point and all 你 need to do is take a deep breathe and step back and think.
What 你 have to think of is that nobody can tell 你 who 或者 what 你 are, sexually 或者 otherwise, that is something 你 need to find out for yourself.
The way i found out was 由 experimenting. Seeing how things went when dating different sexes that i liked. I made a point of never comparing them to each other and always telling them it was to find my own sexuality in case i hurt them, but i came to realise after a few years that i actually was physically, sexually and emotuionally attracted to both men and women each for different and yet similiar reasons.
Finding your own is going to take time, and the best thing to be is patient. I'm not the patient type myself and i must admit it will be torture, but openly speaking about your worries with girlfriends/boyfriends/everyday 老友记 can help as they will give their perspective on you.

It's trial and error i'm afraid :)