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I make liking someone too obvious.

How can I stop this? Usually when I have a crush on a boy I make it obvious. Usually SOMEONE says "Ooh 你 like him!" And I have to fight 由 lying. Usually its right 下一个 to the guy and he hears it. I need this habit to stop..
 Skitty_Love posted 一年多以前
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Chibi-Baka3 said:
Well, all people are different. Sometimes with things like this, it's hard to stop the habit. However, it's not impossible; it just takes a bit of work. 爱情 is a subtle thing.

It's perfectly normal for 你 to be fighting someone against it, but 你 must be careful if the person 你 like is around. 你 never know if they like 你 back -- unless you're good at 阅读 signs -- and it could really hurt their feelings. Take things in a calmer way, 或者 just ignore the person who's saying things such as "You like that boy, don't you?" 或者 "*your name here* has a boyfriend~!" Some of these things 你 merely can't escape. I'm still dealing with something like this, but I don't mind it as much.

Also, how do 你 think that 你 make it obvious? Can 你 give me some examples?
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posted 一年多以前 
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U-um well I guess 你 could call me a flirter... I swear I do it without even knowing! I don't go TOO far though, but like I always laugh at what they say and smile all the time...
Skitty_Love posted 一年多以前
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Ah, doing things without noticing it can be a bit of a burden, yes? Well, it's fine to laugh and smile all the time, and they should also just see it as means of someone being friendly. Try to think about this habit often when you're around him and try compressing it. I know that it's easier 说 than done, but I'm sure with a little bit of patience, you'll be able to go through. Good luck!
Chibi-Baka3 posted 一年多以前
thechampishere said:
its always hard to hide a crush. but when the say that u have a crush, dont make the denial to sketchy. like, try not to smile (that shit is hard to do! XD) and try to fight the urge to double-take, 或者 frequently say 'hi' to the crush. thats what i always do.
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HyperSophz1 said:
Happens to me, even thought Ive never likedd someone it happens. I have these 老友记 that are also boys and my 老友记 are like 'OH SHE LIKES HIM!' even thought i never did, just tell them to shush, if they keep staying it, i know this is not helpfull but yell 2 ur 老友记 crush that he/she likes him/her. 或者 tell the dude that 你 do like him 或者 tell me that your friend was justing being crazy
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