I have kind of a confusing family problem. Can anyone help me?

Hi I suggest get them both in the same room and tell them whats been going on and remind them 你 are not lying and tell them to stop making your life a nightmare and start listening to each other and then see what happens. Hope that makes sense. Other than that just keep repeating what 你 say to both of them until they get fed up. 或者 tell them to talk it through with each other. I dont know parents 你 爱情 them but they do cause trouble.

sorry about your pain, but 你 do not need the yelling 或者 the negative arguments it doesnt help ease anything, mum sounds like she needs to go off to cry as she is hurting deep, and dad seems to yell to help him deal with it. but he should go out to the mountains and yell out all his hurt and his own pain for allowing it in, he is probably feeling useless, as is his wife, but they need to be together for it will drive them apart. your pain is deep , and 你 always try to put a 《勇敢传说》 face on so others do not see how 你 trully feel, 你 have a great heart, one that cares for your parents a great deal, which is honorable, 你 are a great daughter. do 你 go to church and have 你 been baptised? but your parents are at a lose to what to do. many of the grets of life have suffered in silence, as it helps to build a pain tolerance and acceptance, and only 你 can do it. when was the last ime 你 went out as a family, to the beach? i feel the sadness and the hurt of all of you, he is angry, at him self , she doesnt know what to do, and 你 stuck in the middle. with the blessings of God , and a few prayers i pray that your pain leaves and enters those that deserve it. keep your chin up, 你 may have to call a family meeting, there will be some crying and much acceptance, but 你 are the one with the disease that will fade.may God bless 你 and aid 你 all in a cure, may peace be with you, have 你 thought of 写作 a book describing of how 日 to 日 life has been for all of you.i hope your mum and dad can talk, before its to late, a family that cries and does all together helps the pain go away, good luck to all of 你 and may God be with 你 always;-]

Get both of your parents in the same room and have it out with them from the beginning. Explain how you're so confused as 你 believe their trust in 你 has been broken somehow and 你 don't know what 你 have done to deserve it. Tell your mother what 你 dad said, then tell your dad what your mother 说 and ask them both to explain what they meant, how they meant it and to start communicating better with each other.
Tell your mother that her walking out on 你 because of your 'negativity' is not helping your self-esteem and 你 would appreciate a little 更多 help and guidance.
Tell your father that when he yells at 你 for bottling in the pain that is is making 你 feel 更多 conscious of your illness and that 你 feel 你 have done something wrong, even though 你 only did it to improve your mothers life-style and to keep her in the house a bit more.

Explain to them that they need to start communicating with each other better, before they can start communicating to you, as when they say different things it confuses 你 and 你 can't do right for doing wrong.

I know how 你 feel. Parents never listen. The best thing to do is bring them both to 你 and say ok i want 你 both to bebquiet while I tell 你 this than 你 may say what 你 wish and tell them your feelings

maybe your mom and dad had a fight 或者 a long 日 that can get some people frustrated.