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I need some help on something important.

I don't want to start a huge argument 或者 anything but I really need some advice. My mom is extremely religious and believes that if you're not Catholic, you're wrong. I, don't consider myself religious, I don't believe in God. I think that would be considered Athiest. My mom found out accidentally when I was answering a 问题 for my English class online that asked "Who is most important in your life?" and I didn't answer God. My mom is being awfully cold and forces me to go to church now. Is there any way for her to accept that I don't believe in God and stop forcing me to go to church when I don't want to?

Any advise would be helpful, please and thank you!
 SacredDawn posted 一年多以前
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Mrs-Grint said:
I don't think it's a matter of what 你 BELIEVE. It's what 你 KNOW. If 你 KNOW there's a God, 或者 if 你 don't KNOW there's a God. I take it 你 believe in evolution. My mum's a Jehovah Witness but I'm not, we just don't talk about it. Just tell your mum that 你 don't believe there is a God and if she can't accept that than she can go wandering in her own little world of make-believe.
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I agree with this!
XDRoseLuvsHP posted 一年多以前
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yup. its all truee.
hermione980 posted 一年多以前
hikaru13 said:
Well, I for one am a Christian, but I do respect your belief. [Don't worry, I'm not gonna try to convert 你 或者 anything like that.] Talk to your parents on how 你 feel about this. They'll come to understand. And if they persist, 你 might as well give it a try. Still don't believe it? Once again, talk it out with your parents. If 你 feel strong about it, they ought to respect that.
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I totally agree with you, hikaru13.
lydianm posted 一年多以前
Mousefang said:
well i have the same problem, i just say 你 can make me go to church and all that but 你 can't force me to belive in him. i my self belive we need physical proof to belive in anything. and if 你 scoold me say it to my face and don't get all religious and stuff, i hate that, and i won't do the same.
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XDRoseLuvsHP said:
Nobody should try to force 你 to believe in something 你 don't really believe in. 你 should be free to believe in whatever 你 want to believe. If your mother cannot accept that, I feel sorry for her. But 你 should talk to her about it. She may just be in shock that 你 don't believe what she always thought 你 believed in, and she may just need a little while to accept it. But definitely talk to her. Don't yell at her 或者 anything. Talk calmly. Even if she gets worked up, keep your cool. As I said, she may just need some time to accept the fact. Good luck with it.
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posted 一年多以前 
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i also agree with this but sometimes 你 need to act out and raise your voice and stand up to your mom and tell it to her straight.
Mousefang posted 一年多以前
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agreed
hermione980 posted 一年多以前
awesomebrowny said:
Yikes thats harsh..I would just explain 2 her that u dont believe in god.If that doesn't work( I wouldn't recommend this)just refuse 2 go 2 church
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hermione980 said:
Well, I am Christian but I respect and even embrace people who arent. For example, my opinion of 你 didnt change even after I realized 你 didn't believe in God. Just remember your Mom loves you, and if she truly wants to be "Godly", she will accept 你 for who 你 are. If she cant, then just try not to bring it up around her. I hope things work out for you.
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Summer_Leanne said:
It's quite unlike the true Christian to scold someone that harshly for not believing in God, let alone Catholicism. Yes sweets, I am a Christian, but I don't believe you're a wretched person for not believing God exists. That's your own opinion. I can't and won't judge 你 for it. She's your mother, so it's common cortesy to respect her wishes. She's blinded, and 你 must accept that. She sees 你 as damned for your beliefs. Yes, I believe you'll end up in hell when you've died if 你 still believe the way 你 do, but I have witnessed amazing changes in the lives of people who call themselves atheists. If she's annoying you, tell her. If she refuses to respond, don't let her push 你 around but be careful before 你 come off as too rude. I'm sure she still loves 你 and thinks she's doing the best for you. 你 simply need to edge her into the direction in which you're thinking. And to add something in...if you're an atheist because 你 don't believe in faith, the scientific paradigms of our generation collapse simply because one insignificant detail laid waste to many. Don't believe me? Look up a 报道 from a non-biased reporter, if that's possible (not a scientist. A reporter. Scientist can easily become biased from their shallow belief in science alone.) So, dear, if 你 think atheism isn't a religion, you're wrong. It takes FAITH to believe science is correct, and even 更多 faith to believe in a paradigm that falls eventually with new knowledge. Religion is a set of beliefs concerning the cause, nature, and purpose of the universe. Your belief lies in the strength of man's science. Mine lies within the strength of a mighty and affectionate God, who watches the world suffer itself to death through humanity's obstinance, pride, and self-exaltation.
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