(I'm only putting "Women" in my answer, in case 你 were talking about dating-wise.)
Women pandering to me. There's nothing wrong with *insert ethnicity* getting into other cultures, but don't come to me with a fake, Black accent and the classless 表演 out in public.
Women who wanna do gross kinks 或者 cuckold porn. I don't do cuckold porn.
Women who try to henpeck me because "I'm supposed to please the woman." I'll treat her like a queen, but I will not be treated like a peasant.
Women who try to convert me to *insert religion. I believe in God, but I'm not religious, and I wanna keep it that way.
Morbidly-obese women. That's self-explanatory.
posted 一年多以前
As far as conversim, not just women; men, as well.
"Ignoring people when you're mad" Depends. If it's the person that caused that anger to begin with and they fully well know why, then why the hell would I not ignore them? I never really understood why people get mad at people who're upset and doesn't want to talk to the people who caused the problem to begin with.
Thank 你 for your opinion, but I personally feel communication is key tbh. What i've seen destroy so many relationships is lack of communication. If there's a problem, even if 你 think the person knows it, tell them about it. Confronting people may not always have the outcome 你 have in mind, but being honest about how 你 feel about something is something I think should happen 更多 often.\
I think that ignoring a person might be better in some cases. Like with my dad; he has anger issues so if he walks away and ignores you, that's to keep him from having a literal breakdown. The same applies to me; if I walk away, that's me trying to avoid things getting out of control.
Not to mention 你 can't always talk things out with everyone and sometimes it best to break off the relationship if it's not working out and if that person doesn't want to listen to 你 then 你 ignore them because 你 can't get through everyone. 你 can try talking till you're blue in the face but that doesn't matter to some people.
I certainly agree that Communication is key in every Relationship. That being said, it's true that 你 can't always talk things out with everyone. Provided 你 HAVE MADE THE EFFORT ALREADY and see this is going nowhere, better end it there. Some people won't listen to anything 你 have to say so just leave them to sort things on their own is for the best. Yeah, it really depends. As afewseconds pointed out, there is no need to keep paying attention to the person that only burdens your mental state further. Likewise though, I don't understand ignoring those that are NOT responsible for them being like that. Pretty sure that is the main point Rubie is trying to get across here. It's one thing asking to be left alone and another straight up being a jerk without warning and expecting everyone to immediately understand why. That applying even for the person 你 are mad towards. Misunderstandings occur all the time. If 你 never 确认 the truth of a case, it'll never be resolved. Only repeated !!!!
Legit reasons; - A past history of cheating - Smokers; it's the smell, the aesthetic is kinda badass but the smell turns me away - A past history of abuse and/or manipulation - Clinginess. I am not a touchy feely person and I need a lot of space. - Inability to respect boundaries - Close mindedness - Kill joy, I get being in a bad mood and having bad months and stuff. But if a person is constantly spouting negative energy I can't deal with that, because it's hard enough for me to manage my own negative thoughts. Basically this is a matter of it simply not being a good idea to get two pessimists together so that they can feed off of each other. - Alcoholism - Men who raise their voices and get really loud - Lack of humor and adventure - 写作 people off and judging them for race, sex, sexuality, religion, and so on. - On the other side; being intolerant of mistakes and the ability to change and improve. Basically, being unforgiving.
Petty reason; - Body hair, I hate body hair on men and women
posted 一年多以前
I agree with the grand majority of this, especially Alcoholism. Bad experiences with that. Kill Joy's too, XD Like don't fuck up my party because your party is a school meeting 哈哈
I mean I'm NGL, I'm depressed as shit but I try not to drag others down. And (though I am aware that this isn't something everyone is capable of) I can still have a bomb 屁股 time while being a depressed piece of shit. And people can pry dark jokes out of my cold dead hands.
