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Are there any odd 或者 interesting ways 你 显示 affection / receive affection?

To be honest, a lot of my ways of 展示 affection are weird, especially since I got a bit of them from birds XD

But of the less extremely odd ones but still kind of so, I take 食物 as a way of 展示 affection to people XD

Offering me some of their 食物 for some reason seems to be one of the stronger forms of affection I notice. Like.... At this point, I might even find it 更多 so than complements of verbal XD

And likewise, if I like someone, I usually tend to offer them food. The 更多 I like you, the 更多 I seem to go out of my way to get 你 食物 XD

Like friends? Oh sure, 你 can have some of my snack.

REALLY CLOSE FRIENDS? Okay lemme go pay for our lunch every other day.

Not really THAT often but still XD

I dont even like 食物 that much XD
 Are there any odd 或者 interesting ways 你 显示 affection / receive affection?
 Riku114 posted 一年多以前
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Mauserfan1910 said:
I really wouldn't describe me as affectionate in any way. That said, I tend to be rough with the people I like.
My husband and I argue for fun. We don't really fight, but we kinda set up debates with each other over philosophical shit
I have a friend from Santa Fe who I used to bare knuckle fight with before I got pregnant.
I hardcore insult the prez, I'm always like 嘿 faggit, ur a retard
So if I'm rough with 你 without being straight up mean, it's probably because I like you
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I'm the same way. I 爱情 fake-arguing over stupid stuff that doesn't mean anything, and I'm purposely aggressive towards people I'm close to. I'm usually too shy to do these kinds of things with most people, so if I end up insulting/punching someone it means I like them.
ArcticWolf posted 一年多以前
CokeTheUmbreon said:
Same with the 食物 thing.
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kingcesar67 said:
Harassing them
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wantadog said:
I give massages.

The 更多 I like/trust a person, the 更多 likely I'll be to agree to give/be eager to give them a nice and thorough massage using the massage therapy stuff I've been learning.

It can go from begrudgingly accepting to do it to sometimes suggesting they need one to flat out offering to massage practically anything that comes up in conversation.
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 I give massages. The 更多 I like/trust a person, the 更多 likely I'll be to agree to give/be eager to give them a nice and thorough massage using the massage therapy stuff I've been learning. It can go from begrudgingly accepting to do it to sometimes suggesting they need one to flat out offering to massage practically anything that comes up in conversation.
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zanhar1 said:
I don't 显示 affection. I don't like receiving it either. Keep your emotions 10,000 feet away from me. Its awkward and uncomfortable.
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Freeme11 posted 一年多以前
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For me I do some of it unconsciously. Like if a friend at work is feeling like shit I'll offer to help with/complete some of her tasks automatically.
ArcticWolf posted 一年多以前
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Gotcya lol. I guess mine is just making people laugh 或者 something like that? I don't do any of the 'conventional' affection stuff.
zanhar1 posted 一年多以前
Freeme11 said:
i agree with zanhar1
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Scourgestar said:
I don't 显示 much affection....however, i do tend to head nudge like a cat sometimes :p
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ArcticWolf said:
When I'm super comfortable around someone, I playfully 冲床 them to 显示 affection. I've received mixed responses.

I also offer to do things I really don't want to do if the person I'm with is really tired.

Receiving affection? I don't like being touched (ironic because of the punching thing. I don't understand it either). I really don't ask for 随意 acts of kindness so when people offer me something I try to turn them down several times first.

...unless they're offering me food. Free 食物 is awesome and I don't turn that down.
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ShadowFan100 said:
I'm generally not into a lot of physical contact, as the mere thought of it makes my skin crawl 95% of the time. Though, there is the rare 5% where I actually crave hugs. But no fucking hand-shakes, I hate that shit with a passion.

I 显示 affection through words (spoken 或者 text). 或者 由 doing things for those I really love. But don't expect me to 吻乐队(Kiss) you, either. That's gross. 😣
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BlindBandit92 said:
If I really like you. I'll solve your problems if 你 ask me to do it 或者 not. Especially if I know it's obviously affecting you.

I'll probably tease someone as well. The 更多 I tease = how close I consider myself to you. I also try to showcase my knowledge/planning/etc if anyone needs it.

你 need to plan a trip? I will plan it to the letter and make sure it's as chill as possible. Nothing is going wrong with that trip if I can help it.

Weirdly enough I appreciate the times where I can be quiet with a friend but it's not awkward silence. Those kinds of situations are pretty chill. I really 爱情 that.

Just some of the ways.
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I relate to these too XD
Riku114 posted 一年多以前
Zeppie said:
I'm not very affectionate with anyone aside from my partner tbh.

For family I'll try lighten the mood with jokes 或者 dumb stories 或者 I'll just ask them how their 日 was.

老友记 I'll nudge them if we're playing around 或者 hug them if I haven't seen them in a while. I'll pay for 食物 for them on special occasions 或者 if we made a bet. Just chat about how they're doing. With my closest friend we lean on each other on the 长椅, 沙发 或者 sometimes walk with our arms linked if it's late.

My partner and I are very affectionate. Just lots of kisses and cuddles and randomly blowing air up each others noses 或者 in their ear, licking face, butt smacks, shouting each other lunch 或者 coming to the gym with a 冰沙, 思慕雪 for him 或者 he'll uber to my house and bring sushi. Just those things.

Nothing too weird I guess lol. I'm not great at receiving affection from people aside from my partner, closest friend and family.
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Pretty similar with me tho tbh.
Riku114 posted 一年多以前
TheLefteris24 said:
Well, I don't know if I should call them Odd 或者 particularly Interesting even though I cannot help but feel like an Alien when seeing most opinions and the 答案 here XD People have their own ways of 展示 affection in various ways anyway. Mine is mainly doing so through certain Actions (Making a special gift for others, standing 由 them through hardships, partaking in activities together, trying my best to crack a smile out of them in overall, doing a high five 或者 anything of the sort, etc.)
I do not mind expressing my appreciation through Words. Well, it is not that I am THAT good at them actually... But I try. Pretty much, I do not mind telling people how I feel about them. The closest, the easiest really. I'll say it as many times as needed actually whether they believe me 或者 not. A Reminder is never bad. We might need it at times. That is just the way Humans work, I believe.

As for the way I have received affection in my Life, the same ways apply, I suppose. I guess, what is really odd would be the fact that while I am all about giving, I have a hard time actually feeling it myself. I mean, I know it is there but it is like I cannot understand why as weird as it seems. Ironic in a way. Displaying affection but not being used to receiving it back myself. I appreciate it though, nonetheless. So, just normal stuff in the end XD !!!!
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 Well, I don't know if I should call them Odd 或者 particularly Interesting even though I cannot help but feel like an Alien when seeing most opinions and the 答案 here XD People have their own ways of 展示 affection in various ways anyway. Mine is mainly doing so through certain Actions (Making a special gift for others, standing 由 them through hardships, partaking in activities together, trying my best to crack a smile out of them in overall, doing a high five 或者 anything of the sort, etc.) I do not mind expressing my appreciation through Words. Well, it is not that I am THAT good at them actually... But I try. Pretty much, I do not mind telling people how I feel about them. The closest, the easiest really. I'll say it as many times as needed actually whether they believe me 或者 not. A Reminder is never bad. We might need it at times. That is just the way Humans work, I believe. As for the way I have received affection in my Life, the same ways apply, I suppose. I guess, what is really odd would be the fact that while I am all about giving, I have a hard time actually feeling it myself. I mean, I know it is there but it is like I cannot understand why as weird as it seems. Ironic in a way. Displaying affection but not being used to receiving it back myself. I appreciate it though, nonetheless. So, just normal stuff in the end XD !!!!
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Oh I have similar actions too XD
Riku114 posted 一年多以前
THaSlimJim said:
if i talk to u nicely i probly like u but u will kno when i do not like u.
if i share my 比萨, 比萨饼 w/ u tho then ur hte bees knees
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bees have knees?
Riku114 posted 一年多以前
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