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Family, friends, lover/spouse, children. In which order do 你 / would 你 value and hold your loyalties to the most and why?

Family meaning your parents and siblings who 你 grew up with - thus separating them from lover/spouse and children.

Lover / Spouse meaning your wife, husband, 或者 long term relationship. For those who dont plan to marry 或者 anything, it can also mean your sexual partner. If 你 dont plan for either, I guess this would prolly be your lowest without 问题 XD
 Family, friends, lover/spouse, children. In which order do 你 / would 你 value and hold your loyalties to the most and why?
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Personally, I think spouse / children would probably rank the most if I got to that point. But when it comes to friend and family that it really depends on who we are talking about
Riku114 posted 一年多以前
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I must thank 你 for asking such amazing 问题 ❤️❤️❤️
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wantadog said:
None of the above. I'm not loyal to a "type" like "family" 或者 "Friends" I'm loyal to those INDIVIDUALS who earn that loyalty. There are members of my family I am not loyal to at all and would sell them out to a friend who I am 更多 loyal to. Same for friends. There are some 老友记 who I am less loyal to than even myself because for some rhyme 或者 reason they 迷失 certain amounts of my trust.

The only one I can honestly rank would be "lover/spouse" because I would only ever become 爱人 或者 marry someone who I quite simply am completely dedicated to. I'd give that person everything I have. Everyone I am loyal to gets it all to some degree but the person I choose to spend my life with is the one deserving of everything. Devotion....Trust....Forgiveness....whatever 你 can think of.

and obviously the word of a child should be taken with a grain of salt.
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 None of the above. I'm not loyal to a "type" like "family" 或者 "Friends" I'm loyal to those INDIVIDUALS who earn that loyalty. There are members of my family I am not loyal to at all and would sell them out to a friend who I am 更多 loyal to. Same for friends. There are some 老友记 who I am less loyal to than even myself because for some rhyme 或者 reason they 迷失 certain amounts of my trust. The only one I can honestly rank would be "lover/spouse" because I would only ever become 爱人 或者 marry someone who I quite simply am completely dedicated to. I'd give that person everything I have. Everyone I am loyal to gets it all to some degree but the person I choose to spend my life with is the one deserving of everything. Devotion....Trust....Forgiveness....whatever 你 can think of. and obviously the word of a child should be taken with a grain of salt.
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Im the same for the most part, but I was mostly doing a generalized look XD
Riku114 posted 一年多以前
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Mine are 更多 on a people stand point but its something my sister talked to me about a lot when I was younger XD
Riku114 posted 一年多以前
BlindBandit92 said:
Depending on if 说 person deserved 说 loyalty. All of the people closest to me would get even loyalty. I am not planning on getting married 或者 having kids so scratch that. There is a member of my family I don't have loyalty towards. There used to be 老友记 who 迷失 说 loyalty.

My loyalty depends on the individual and whether 说 person earned the right to obtain my loyalty. If they have my loyalty I will be extremely loyal to them until I have reason to do otherwise.

(Even if I have a sexual partner. I think my loyalty would be to them like a good friend whose close to me so basically the same.)
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 Depending on if 说 person deserved 说 loyalty. All of the people closest to me would get even loyalty. I am not planning on getting married 或者 having kids so scratch that. There is a member of my family I don't have loyalty towards. There used to be 老友记 who 迷失 说 loyalty. My loyalty depends on the individual and whether 说 person earned the right to obtain my loyalty. If they have my loyalty I will be extremely loyal to them until I have reason to do otherwise. (Even if I have a sexual partner. I think my loyalty would be to them like a good friend whose close to me so basically the same.)
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TheLefteris24 said:
Well, I'll go with the flow of the 答案 so far and triple on the fact that an equal amount of my loyalty would go to certain individuals regardless of which Group they belong to. Can't really generalize. There is a certain part of my Family that I'm feeling really grateful towards them but when it comes to the other one, not so much. I do not feel beholden to the later. It is the same case with 老友记 of mine. In the first place, why can't the barriers break and they be considered Family as well? I feel that those closest to me really deserve of such a Title. A bond 由 blood simply means nothing on a matter like that. Same case with my Lover/Spouse and Children obviously. In other words, I'm loyal towards those who harbor the same feelings as me regardless of their placement in my Life !!!!
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 Well, I'll go with the flow of the 答案 so far and triple on the fact that an equal amount of my loyalty would go to certain individuals regardless of which Group they belong to. Can't really generalize. There is a certain part of my Family that I'm feeling really grateful towards them but when it comes to the other one, not so much. I do not feel beholden to the later. It is the same case with 老友记 of mine. In the first place, why can't the barriers break and they be considered Family as well? I feel that those closest to me really deserve of such a Title. A bond 由 blood simply means nothing on a matter like that. Same case with my Lover/Spouse and Children obviously. In other words, I'm loyal towards those who harbor the same feelings as me regardless of their placement in my Life !!!!
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BlindBandit92 posted 一年多以前
Heartbeat- said:
In real life I only value my family since I haven't experienced the other relationships. My baby sister would be my life❤️
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 In real life I only value my family since I haven't experienced the other relationships. My baby sister would be my life❤️
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:v But Im ur friend :v
Riku114 posted 一年多以前
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I know I was talking about real life..Your my coolest friend <3
Heartbeat- posted 一年多以前
Zeppie said:
It's not something I could ever rank tbh.

I have good and bad days with family, 老友记 and my partner but my loyalty doesn't change. I couldn't put anyone above the other tbh, they all hold a lot of meaning in my life and I am grateful for them.

Although when I do have children I could imagine a strong bond there. I mean the bond between mother and child is significant. Still wouldn't consider my loyalty mainly devoted to the child though.

Interesting 问题 though... id find it extremely difficult to have different levels of loyalty to the people that support and shape me.
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Mauserfan1910 said:
1: Children. I brought them into this world (at least, I will be soon) so I have the responsibility to make sure that I do everything I can for them.

2: Lover. My husband has done the most to earn my loyalty, otherwise I wouldn't have married him. I know for a fact that he'll always be there in return.

3. friends. Kinda the same thing as husband except I don't usually also fuck them

4: family. I didn't choose my family and a lot of them treat me like dirt. I tend to value relationships that 你 build up rather than the ones that just kinda happen so my family has to earn my loyalty as much as my 老友记 do
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SilentForce said:
1.Spouse
2.Children
3.Family
4.Friends
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