Family, friends, lover/spouse, children. In which order do 你 / would 你 value and hold your loyalties to the most and why?
Family meaning your parents and siblings who 你 grew up with - thus separating them from lover/spouse and children.
Lover / Spouse meaning your wife, husband, 或者 long term relationship. For those who dont plan to marry 或者 anything, it can also mean your sexual partner. If 你 dont plan for either, I guess this would prolly be your lowest without 问题 XD