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Okay, so I've been 老友记 with this guy for four years. He's been bullied pretty much all of his life, and I've always stuck 由 his side. Even when people made fun of me for hanging out with him, I didn't care. We've always had this deep connection, and we loved each other like brother and sister.

Recently, these girls have been harassing him. Telling him to kill himself and saying he did things in which he didn't. I helped him through this rough patch, and it was emotional for both of us.

About two days after this happened, he slowly stopped responding to my texts. And then, he stopped responding overall. I thought he was just busy, but it turned out he was texting everyone but me. My 老友记 would ask him about me, and when they did he just would ignore the 问题 and/or not respond.

A 日 或者 two later, I was on the bus, and he sat with another kid. The kid asked him about me, and the guy looked straight at me and 说 "we've never talked before." It honestly crushed me, and now I can't stand to hear his voice 或者 see him around.

Why do 你 think he did this? We haven't talked ever since, and I don't feel like he wants to make it up at all I (niether do I, really). Any 建议 from the 潮流粉丝俱乐部 community?
 rapunzelsgold_ posted 一年多以前
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Riku114 said:
你 should probably confront him yourself about it and make sure he is okay with his problems first. This might be a branch off from it, so dont throw him away and hate him so quickly. People who have problems, may it be genetic, psychological, 或者 scars from trauma, tend to do things that might not be the wisest.

Though some reasons I could come up with is.....

1) Someone made 你 seem worthless than the damage 你 would cause for him
a: This may be because 你 gained a bad reputation and people hated him because of 你 and thats what they said
b: It was a bargain of sort
c: Someone 说 a lie to him about 你 that made 你 seem less than what 你 should be
d: A threat was placed
e: 你 became 'bad for his reputation'

2) Its the drag on from something psychological/traumatizing
a: Maybe 你 remind him of something bad
b: Maybe 你 bring back bad memories of the past despite being the 来源 of the good

3) Something 你 did bothered him 或者 vice versa
a: Something uncomfortable. Maybe he ended up liking you, maybe he thought 你 ended up liking him.
b: Maybe 你 became too close
c: Maybe trust issues

4) He is trying to start anew
a: 你 are part of his past that must be dropped.
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posted 一年多以前 
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Wish 你 the best of luck though
Riku114 posted 一年多以前
Haonako said:
你 need to pull through and if neither of 你 wants to make up then leave him like 你 dont need him tf
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posted 一年多以前 
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Thats kind of harsh. Especially for a friend of 4 years that powered through so much
Riku114 posted 一年多以前
pablopj said:
你 say there people who been mean to him, there's a chance they lied to him about 你 so he would stay away from you, the best thing to do in a case like this is to talk with him, find a way to get to him and ask, if they lied something like 你 hate him, then he can be feeling bad, maybe even close to ending his life, if 你 want to know, 你 have to be the one to talk
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Dreamtime said:
damn
probably someone 说 bad things about 你 to him to make him avoid you
face him just tell him hear him out there must be a mistake here
hope things goes well for you
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