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Um I have a situation

Now I've been liking this boy. and my friend told him in front of EVERYONE! I have these options:

Kill her
Tell her crush she likes him in front of everyone
Ignore her
Ignore the problem
Be friends
Kill her

I meant to put kill her 2 times
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if 你 do kill her i'm not giving 建议 on how to get rid of the body
kittykazami posted 一年多以前
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哈哈
FanFun1010 posted 一年多以前
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Shadowmarioking said:
putting "kill her" as an option just tells me how immaturely you're looking at the situation and how you're not thinking why she did this. you're thinking in the retrospect "why did my friend have to backstab me like that just because i tell her this doesn't mean she has to blab about it"

lemme put this in a point of view 你 can understand. it may not be a good view, but i feel the need to drill it in your head
you're the one who told her about this crush. 你 disclosed this information to her, and if 你 didn't want her to say anything, why didn't 你 tell that to her?"
now, i'm not saying 你 didn't. i don't know if 你 did. i'm also not saying that this is your fault. it is something to keep in mind though.

telling her crush she likes him will NOT SOLVE ANYTHING, AND WILL PROBABLY COST 你 A FRIEND. REVENGE, 或者 PAYBACK OF ANY SORT WILL NOT HELP YOU. IT IS A CHILDISH RESORT. just, no.

ignoring the problem will not make it go away. it will still be there, and it will lurk in your mind for as long as possible. ignorance may be bliss, but there are some situations where it doesn't apply. she may take your ignorance in a negative connotation.

being 老友记 is optional with the boy (if that's what you're referring to), but only if 你 feel comfortable with it.

i suggest 你 tell your friend that 你 didn't want her to tell everyone about it, and that personal information like this is meant to be kept between friends, not become some petty gossip story. as for the boy, 你 could probably 确认 the feelings 你 have for him, but in reality what 你 do is up to you.

你 could easily ignore everything i said, that's fine. in reality, 你 control what happens next. i'm just giving 你 different 查看 so that 你 can choose your path carefully
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posted 一年多以前 
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你 have no idea how much my wrists hurt after typing this just ow.
Shadowmarioking posted 一年多以前
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How is it my fault for trusting my friend enough to tell her a secret
FanFun1010 posted 一年多以前
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" i'm also not saying that this is your fault" did 你 not read that 或者
Shadowmarioking posted 一年多以前
kittykazami said:
ignore the problem and pretend it's not awkward. it only makes it worse if 你 make a big deal out of it.
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posted 一年多以前 
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Its hard. I feel betrayed
FanFun1010 posted 一年多以前
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well if 你 really wanna do something 你 can completely over react and enjoy the drama
kittykazami posted 一年多以前
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but that tends to not end so well
kittykazami posted 一年多以前
legend_of_roxas said:
Well maybe your friend didn't mean to make 你 feel embarrassed 由 her telling your crush that 你 like him, she might have wanted to let him know so 你 wouldn't have to tell him. I think 你 should ignore the problem 或者 try to tell her that 你 didn't like what she did....but I'm guessing that 你 two aren't very good 老友记 anyway if 你 want to kill her so badly....
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posted 一年多以前 
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Are 你 saying I should kill her 或者 not?
FanFun1010 posted 一年多以前
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I just told you, ignore the problem 或者 tell her that 你 don't like what she did and solve the problem
legend_of_roxas posted 一年多以前
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Don't need to kill her, jeez -.-
legend_of_roxas posted 一年多以前
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just asking
FanFun1010 posted 一年多以前
XxKeithHarkinxX said:
Why is this such a big deal?

I mean, he now knows 你 like him right?

I'd just forget the problem, because it doesn't really seem like one.

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posted 一年多以前 
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I wish 你 were a girl
FanFun1010 posted 一年多以前
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I am a girl e_e
XxKeithHarkinxX posted 一年多以前
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kitty I wasn't talking to 你
FanFun1010 posted 一年多以前
AmyRosefan4eva said:
你 choose what 你 think is right/needs to be done. Just know you'll go to jail if 你 kill her. ^-^
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posted 一年多以前 
egyptprincess7 said:
你 can choose whichever 你 think is right. I personally would just ignore the problem and not make a big deal out of it and I would not kill her. She's your friend,sure she told him 你 liked him in front of everybody but 你 can simply ignore her for a bit until she realizes she shouldn't have done that. Deciding to kill her is taking things way too far and will just make 更多 problems.
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posted 一年多以前 
adultswimperson said:
Why do 你 care so much about the problem if it's already been 说 in front of people?
Having fear of something 你 think is not okay isn't a bad thing, if 你 want to set things right then do it.
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posted 一年多以前 
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Because telling someone not to do something and they do it anyway IN FRONT OF PEOPLE!
FanFun1010 posted 一年多以前
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@FanFun: Ignore the problem and don't let it get 你 down.
adultswimperson posted 一年多以前
springely said:
All of the above.
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posted 一年多以前 
cyrus498 said:
Well did this boy accept you?
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posted 一年多以前 
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He didn't say anything
FanFun1010 posted 一年多以前
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