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best friend?

Alright, Last 年 was my first 年 of high school. I was really excited and nervous at the same time. As soon as high school started, almost everyone I knew changed completely, except for my bff. Most of the girls in my 年 would talk about boys, trying to make their skirts a little shorter and who should go out with who. My bff and I stayed the same. We would tell each other secrets, talk about the most 随意 things and always laughing together, just like we did in primary. Soon at the start of term 3 she started hanging out with this group of girls. They were nice and funny, but they would talk about the disgusting things (hope 你 know what I mean!), try to be cool and talk behind peoples back. After that my bff left me and changed from an innocent girl who is always dressed perfectly and nice to everyone. Now a girl who wears heaps of make up and bugs people around her. I miss her and it hurts so much to lose someone that can make 你 smile everyday! I have other good friends, but they aren't as close as she was. I sometimes feel really lonely without a Best friend, so during my free time I would study and focus on school work, and its slightly getting boring. What should I do? thank you...... :)

prettyme16 posted 一年多以前

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Lt_Kowalski said:

That is very common with teens. Very..

I am not a female, but the only thing I can say is that, as sad is as it is that 你迷失 your best friend, 你 will one 日 find another best friend. Maybe 你 might find her in college. And now that you've seen what 你 ex best friend is really like, 你 know now not to hopefully make the same mistake again.. And once 你 are well into your late teens and early twenties, 你 will HOPEFULLY have a good life and look back and laugh that off because 你 will have much better friends. Let's hope they don't screw 你 over but just hope that 你 will know 更多 on who to trust and what REALLY big decisions 你 must make in your life. 你 are still young. 你 don't want to make any mistakes. 你 want to have goals and not worry about the small things. If 你 make goals now, accomplish them later, 你 will be proud of yourself. 你 will meet GOOD 老友记 along the way.. Trust me.

A good friend is one who stays with 你 all the way through your life when the others have walked out..

I hope that helped. :)

posted 一年多以前

that is really touching! thanks it made me felt a bit better! :)

prettyme16 posted 一年多以前

Really good answer. The only thing I can add is don't try to force a new bff; 你 will in time have another close friend. It's ok to feel the sense of loss right now. 你 never know, she could also come back, and then it's up to 你 if 你 think the friendship is worth it.

jester616 posted 一年多以前

last sentence...so true :)

coriann posted 一年多以前

coriann said:

i know what it's like to 爱情 somebody and see their face everyday and know that they will never 爱情 you, they will never talk to 你 again and experience the hurt they put 你 though in your mind over and over again like a CD

she's changed, people change when they get older, maybe she just wants to be a teen and be 流行的 and cool and enjoy that part of her life to the fullest...and that's what she thinks will get her that, just know that that person you're seeing, it's not the same person 你 hung out with in primary anymore, most likely she will change again when she gets older, but who cares it isn't about her it's about 你 and figuring out who 你 are, enjoy all of the wonderful things that 你 have and forget her, 你 may never be able to find a new best friend if 你 don't 移动 on and forget her, good luck kid

posted 一年多以前

sometimes losing a best friend could be like, severing one of your limbs ^ ^ XD because 你 were so close, it's like there is a hole where she was (i've 迷失 a number of best friends) but since she was constant with 你 for a long time the pain must be greater...but just keep looking 前锋, 期待 for new opertunities, and don't look so far ahead that 你 forget to see the good things that are right in front of 你 ^ ^

coriann posted 一年多以前