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Is it normal to not want kids?

I've been thinking a lot about marrying and kidd lately, but it just seems like too much pressure if I go out and raise a family. I don't think I'm ready for this kinda stuff yet, and I'm like 22. I just don't wanna end up making a mistake if I DO marry and have kids.
 ShadowFan100 posted 一年多以前
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XxKeithHarkinxX said:
lots of people don't want to have kids, it's not a huge deal.

also, many people don't have kids until they are 30, so it's fine that 你 don't feel ready, you're still very young.

Even if you're 50 and decide that 你 wants kids, 你 can just adopt.

So don't worry about it, it's completely understandable that 你 don't want kids.

Don't ever let anyone make 你 think it's wrong that 你 don't want to have kids, and don't let anyone pressure 你 into having them either.
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posted 一年多以前 
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alright i wont stress over it. THANK!
ShadowFan100 posted 一年多以前
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No problem
XxKeithHarkinxX posted 一年多以前
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exactly. i completely agree. =)
101trx posted 一年多以前
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i'm glad
XxKeithHarkinxX posted 一年多以前
Happy_Aura39 said:
I dont want kids,but im 14....
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posted 一年多以前 
viktoriya773 said:
Yes it's fine. Everyone has their own preference. Maybe it's just cuz of your age. At 22 你 don't usually think about this staff. 你 should have kids when your ready. After 你 grow up 你 might change your mind...
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posted 一年多以前 
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i like ur answer! I dont think i need to rush this so i wont
ShadowFan100 posted 一年多以前
ScaryCatfish said:
Yes it is normal. Without kids 你 don't have extra mouths to feed and cater to, but it is your choice.
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posted 一年多以前 
Agent-004 said:
I say wait until 你 feel like you're ready to marry. As for kids? Well...personal preference. Relationships aren't for everyone
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posted 一年多以前 
MissChicky97 said:
Well yes, perfectly normal.
But in contrast, I'm quite a bit younger than 你 and I do want kids.
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posted 一年多以前 
NCISLuverjk93 said:
Completely!

I know I for sure do not want kids.

Neither does my current girlfriend, so that works out well. But we're both in our teens so maybe someday when we're older we'll change our mind.

If in the future 你 do decide 你 want to marry and/or have kids, well you'll know if it's what 你 really want.
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posted 一年多以前 
doodle_the_mice said:
it is very normal, why wouldn't it be?
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posted 一年多以前 
Makeupdiva said:
A friend of mine is 23, married and has no children. She told me that she doesn't want children. I think it's normal. Not everyone wants kids. I do but that's me.
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posted 一年多以前 
laura199627 said:
If 你 don´t think you´re prepare, then don´t. You´re still young. When 你 are sure you´re prepared ; before getting marrying make sure you: finished your pendings ,studies, dreams,wishes. That way 你 can enjoy you´re life better.
And there´s nothing wrong with not wanting kids.
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posted 一年多以前 
hetalianstella said:
Well 你 are still very young at an age of 22. So I can understand you're not ready to raise a family yet.
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posted 一年多以前 
KJBiggestFan said:
Perfectly normal. I'm the same way.
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posted 一年多以前 
JaseKS said:
No, it's perfectly normal.

And good for 你 for being responsible. If 你 don't think you're ready to have a kid, than 你 probably aren't. It's better to be sure than sorry.
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posted 一年多以前 
Renarimae said:
Of course. I don't think I'm going to have kids, and even if I do, I might just adopt. It just seems like it would be too hard going through nine months of pregnancy, going through an agonizing labor to give birth to a child, raise it for 18 years to help it become a decent, positively contributing human being, which could possibly fail and cause 你 to beat yourself up for it. I don't think I could that. I also don't think I could take the time to take care of a kid.
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posted 一年多以前 
KaulitZfan said:
i dont want kids ider theo im 15
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posted 一年多以前 
zoey010 said:
Yes, since the world needs less reproducing.
Just an opinion.
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posted 一年多以前 
XxTheBeatlesxX said:
It's perfectly normal. Don't do anything you're not ready for. 你 won't like it. Anyway, I might have a kid but only if i adopt one, giving birth sounds too painful.
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posted 一年多以前 
Siren-Lamia said:
Yes, it is normal.
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