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I need help...

Okay. I am a bisexual girl. Right now, I'm in 爱情 with another girl. The girl I like is straight, so I know I can never be with her, but I'm not the kinda person that can just get over people easily. Especially not when I 爱情 someone as much as I 爱情 her.

The girl and I are friends, but we don't talk much and never hang out. I try to talk to her and be near her as much as I can, so hopefully we could become better friends, but now she seems to think I'm stalking her. Especially since she caught me staring at her today. Now I'm scared that she thinks I'm a creepy stalker and she's gonna avoid me now. She hasn't 说 anything to me yet, but I think she 说 something about it to one of her friends.

If I liked a guy, if he caught me staring at him he might assume I liked him. But since we're both girls, 你 wouldn't normally assume that. Now I feel like the only way I could get her to understand is to tell her how I feel. But I'm way too shy, not to mention is is VERY rare when we get to be alone together. Plus I have no idea how she would react, and I'm worried it could make things even 更多 awkward between us.

What should I do?

Serious 答案 only please, if any of 你 are homophobes 你 can gtfo now.

daisylove posted 一年多以前

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botchfromhell said:

Approach her telling her that 你 swear 你 aren't stalking her and 你 just wanted to become better 老友记 with her. It coild blossom into something more. I doubt 你 are really in 爱情 with her. I think 你 might think 你爱情 her but it's just a crush i am not going to say 你 are going through a faze like some people do, which is stupid. The only reason i am saying this is because 你 don't know her well enough from what i am reading. Hope i helped

posted 一年多以前

RobinFan360 said:

Say "Girl, I'm bi. And I like you. Now lets go eat pineapples."

posted 一年多以前

lolz

xxxthxs2uxxx posted 一年多以前

JaseKS said:

Well, I have a bisexual friend who once admitted to having a crush on me, and we both knew I was as straight as a symmetry-freak's drawing. I didn't really freak out, because this girl was my best friend, and just cause 你 like someone, doesn't mean you're going to rape them, so I just went on with my life.

Well, at any rate, disregarding my personal life, I believe that 你 should try to talk to her about it. It may be awkward at first, but since she's your friend, explain things to her. Just say 你 have a crush on her, but also mention that 你 hope it won't have any affect on the friendship. Some girls may think "Oh God, this is going to be awkward now." But if 你 explain it to her, I'm certain she'll understand. Take some time to mentally prep yourself for the confrontation. There may be consequences, but if 你 really 爱情 her, it will only make things 更多 awkward if 你 DON'T say anything, for 你 especially.

posted 一年多以前

IoYoI said:

I understand where you're coming from.
I'm a lesbian, and right now I'm majorly crushing on a straight girl.
Except for we hang out a lot. Just because we have the same group of friends. I catch myself staring at her a lot as well. *sigh* damn straight girl hotness..
Right now I'm just planning on riding it out, until I feel like I need to tell her.

给 that, I can't really help 你 other than when 你 tell her, don't be too worried. It will all work out. :)

posted 一年多以前