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Guy advice???

Okay I like one of my guy friends..so a while back I told him that I liked him and he 说 he just wanted to be friends. And even though it hurt to hear that..I just accepted it. So now he got a girlfriend. And believe he I am happy for Jim. But wwhenevr I tell him not to bring her up 或者 anything about being single 或者 in a relationship. But he does anyways!!!!! And when we hung out yesterday..he just..well..completely ignored me..it wasn't as fun as it used to be..how do I handle this all and what is he trying to say..?????
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alex1201 posted 一年多以前
 alex1201 posted 一年多以前
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dreamfields said:
Sometimes when a guy has a crush 或者 is infatuatied with a girl, she is all he thinks about. I don't think he's trying to be mean to you, it's just a phase.
I think it's reasonable for 你 to request that he does not only talk about her when 你 two are hanging out.
But, if 你 want to be 老友记 with him, 你 will have to accept that she is important to him. So he will mention her from timeto time.
Tell him how 你 feel. Hopefully he will understand. For your sake, try not to wait around for the two of 你 to be 更多 than friends. That can be the most miserble experience. Good luck.
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posted 一年多以前 
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awwllss yeshhhh he talks about her NON-STOP!!!!! and it really hurts..i told him not to bring her uo mannyyy of times...but, he continues to do it..
alex1201 posted 一年多以前
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It might be hard, but 你 might need to spend less time around him. I say this one. so 你 don't have to have your feelings hurt. Second, it might cause him to stop and think about what he's doing. These type of situations are the ones I do not miss from being a teenager. Hang in there, and do what's best for you.
dreamfields posted 一年多以前
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Well looks like 你 have to go out of your way not to talk to him *sorry* and if tries to sit 下一个 to 你 on the bus asking why you've been avioding him lately just say 'It's for the best.' 你 know soothing like that so 你 don't hurt him
Dhampires posted 一年多以前
Mileym said:
Well i think 你 should talk to him abt how u feel cuz he might nt know that u'r nt liking it .....hope this helps
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posted 一年多以前 
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true..but its like..he just doesnt take it seriously.
alex1201 posted 一年多以前
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So i think he dosn't want u as a friend anymore..i think u shoukd ignore him & if he really cared abt u'r friendship he'll cm bak
Mileym posted 一年多以前
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