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Have 你 ever heard of something like this and/or seen it person...?

I feel like I might be the only person ever who does it. Whenever my parents, either one of them, are upset 或者 angry, I immediately assume it's because of me. And that makes me feel so terrible I HURT myself, because I 爱情 them so much and hate myself if I though I made people as great as them feel bad... I'll bang my head against the 墙 and tell myself I'm worthless and a disgrace to the family name, things like that, until they find out, calm me down, tell them I'm not the reason for their upset-ness and convince me I'm not worthless... I'm basically like a house elf from Harry Potter when they know they've done wrong. Please don't say anything rude about this. I seriously want to know, have 你 ever witnessed 或者 heard of anyone else doing that? Does this seem normal?
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Any suggestions on how I could stop it would be helpful too... I've tried just not doing it and fighting the urge, but I can't help it.....
someone_save_me posted 一年多以前
 someone_save_me posted 一年多以前
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justleeelee said:
I've seen 你 do that plenty of times, but otherwise, no, sorry... I can't believe 你 still do this, you've been doing it since 你 were 2... 你 need to try and talk with mom and dad again about this...
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posted 一年多以前 
Jeffersonian said:
I've never witnessed something like that but I would suggest first off try every morning looking in the mirror and saying something good about yourself. Also accept that parents will fight occasionally and that does not mean the child is the cause of it...parents just fight.
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posted 一年多以前 
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Um, my parents never fight and I never 说 anything about that..... I 说 when they're upset 或者 mad, not necessarily at each other...
someone_save_me posted 一年多以前
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Sorry, I assumed since mine do fight a lot (over really stupid things...).
Jeffersonian posted 一年多以前
ShiningsTar542 said:
I 爱情 them so much, and I never ever wish any of them to get hurt 或者 to be dead. I get astonished of the person that hates their parents. I just stand for them and defend them, especially when any of my 老友记 offends them even jokingly. But your psychological state (sorry for saying that) I mean your frame of mind (if that can make up) is a little bit weird to me. I mean, I know it when they are upset because of me, 或者 mad at me. As well as if they are upset of something else. But I don't hurt myself, I just blame myself.
And that's it, everything gets alright after then.

But don't be worried, maybe it's because 你 爱情 them so much as 你 said.
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posted 一年多以前 
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" I'm sure of what you've 说 there that your parents 爱情 你 too, and definitely more. :)" Now the last part of that sentence is bullshit. It is impossible for anyone to 爱情 anyone else as much as I 爱情 my parents. Especially "more"...
someone_save_me posted 一年多以前
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I was trying to help out...? ._____. Did I make it worse?
ShiningsTar542 posted 一年多以前
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Yeah...
someone_save_me posted 一年多以前
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..Now?
ShiningsTar542 posted 一年多以前
bubblewrapblues said:
I've heard of people doing things like that, but not for the same reason as you.
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posted 一年多以前 
LeatherRain said:
No.... sorry...
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posted 一年多以前 
dontaskhowiknow said:
Nope, sorry. If I were 你 I'd just, eh I dunno, go see a therapist 或者 talk to your parents about it, 或者 just take really deep breaths and drink some water when 你 feel those impulses coming... yeah my 建议 sucks I'm sorry....
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