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i dont want to move! :(

for once,this is a serious question. please dont try and make it funny.
my dads company recently 迷失 the building my dad worked at.so they tryed a 月 to find him a new spot in their other buildings,but couldnt. so now my dad 迷失 his job. i was totally cool with it. times were tough but it was ok. then,they started talking about moving. i was really happy! i've been in the same apartment since i was two,and i always wanted a dog (which the apartment didnt allow) but we will probably 移动 to Colorado. and that made me realize. i really dont want to move! i have so many loved ones here in california. all my family! our school is here,my meetings are here. EVERYTHING would have to go. i really dont want to go.
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QUESTION: how do i deal with this. (for all those haters that are bugging me for forgeting to put up the 问题 <.<)
RobinFan360 posted 一年多以前
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I'm sorry 你 have to move, and also that I'm not very good with advice. But read TheNumber8's answer, I think the same way. There are things you're not going to like to happen, but a lot of times these are just things that will have to happen sooner 或者 later. I wish 你 happiness! :(
User20392 posted 一年多以前
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Oh also Heartisalone's answer would also be the only answer I could think of. Sorry again.
User20392 posted 一年多以前
 RobinFan360 posted 一年多以前
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Heartisalone said:
Don't worry...
你 can still keep contact with your 老友记 and loved ones over the phone, right?
There are many ways of contacting them... 你 shouldn't worry.

I know how it feels. Eventually, you'll get used to where 你 are.
你 will make new friends, and built new relationships.
It's a new beginning. That's what I told myself when it happened to me. :3
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posted 一年多以前 
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thanks but...its not the same...no one keeps in contact for long anyway. and 80% of emotions are 迷失 in e-mails and texting and stuff any way.
RobinFan360 posted 一年多以前
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^ Thats true. But if 你 want emotion, write a letter :p
GoldnSnitch_96 posted 一年多以前
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no,80% of emotion is 迷失 with all forms of contact other than face to face
RobinFan360 posted 一年多以前
TheNumber8 said:
There are things that happen to is in life that we can't control and that we don't always like. They are an inevitable part of life no matter how unfortunate the occasion.
However, it does not mean that all is lost, for there is brightness in even the darkest of nights. Though moving may rip 你 from the things and the people 你 love, it will also bring 你 new people, things, and places to enjoy. 你 will r brought into new and exciting oppertunities to thrive in and a new lifestyle to discover.
There is sadness, but there is also joy. Do my forget the sad, but focus on the joy.
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posted 一年多以前 
Shadowmarioking said:
I'm going to assume 你 want 建议 on how to deal with this.

To be honest, you've got to be prepared for everything that might come your way, and open up to new possibilities. This doesn't mean 你 should give up on everything though. 你 can still communicate with friends, loved ones, etc. It's not the end of the world, everything will be fine in the long run.
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posted 一年多以前 
Ale1152 said:
Unless your dad finds a job, 你 really don't have a decision. But I'll say one thing, make sure it's something that 你 don't want to do. We came close to moving to Colorado. The only problem is that I refused. And now, 5 months later, I absolutely regret my decision. Not only is it boring here, but it is taking a toll on my mental health.
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posted 一年多以前 
someone_save_me said:
"For once, this is a serious question."

No it isn't, this isn't a damn 问题 at all!

Just get over it dude.
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posted 一年多以前 
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oh so 你 wouldnt mind if 你 迷失 every single person 你 knew? and i forgot to put the 问题 mark sorry. but this IS a 问题
RobinFan360 posted 一年多以前
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As long as I have my family -y'know, who would be moving with me, and like my boyfriend- I'd be PERFECT! And no it isn't!
someone_save_me posted 一年多以前
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well i would HAVE my dad 或者 my boyfriend. and i forgot to add the 问题 qeez!
RobinFan360 posted 一年多以前
InquisitiveOwl said:
I feel sad for you...
Moving is not that bad, unless 你 are used to and 爱情 where 你 live. Fine, go and mourn your 心 out then, sheesh.
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posted 一年多以前 
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XD
Heartisalone posted 一年多以前
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yeah. gee thanks. that made me feel sooooo much better -__
RobinFan360 posted 一年多以前
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DX
Heartisalone posted 一年多以前
tabithasb13 said:
Cool story, broski.
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posted 一年多以前 
justleeelee said:
This isn't a question.

Idk what to tell 你 other than just.. it's a part of your life, just accept it.
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posted 一年多以前 
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gee thanks <.<
RobinFan360 posted 一年多以前
dragonrider said:
Don't feel bad. You'll probably get 更多 room if 你 移动 into a house. Besides there is many ways to communicate with 老友记 and family.
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posted 一年多以前 
adultswimperson said:
This isn't a damn 问题 and 你 have to deal with what comes your way in life so get the hell over it.
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posted 一年多以前 
GoldnSnitch_96 said:
Don't worry! Its not so bad, there are many ways of keeping in touch with your loved ones! Like telegrams! And smoke signals! And the oldest of them all, fax machines!!! But srsly, 你 will still be able to keep in contact with them. 你 will still be able to visit them! At least 你 are only moving interstate, and not to another country! Plus, moving to Colorado may be the best thing 你 ever did! I heard its really beautiful there, and 你 may really enjoy it. The situation seems crap now, but give it time, and try to make the most of it. If that fails, wait about 7 years, then 移动 back.

Hope that helped :3
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posted 一年多以前 
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Also, would everyone please stop treating her like shit? She is going through a lot, and 你 can't fully understand where she is coming from, so 显示 a little empathy, ya pricks.
GoldnSnitch_96 posted 一年多以前
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Agreed with everything 你 said.
User20392 posted 一年多以前
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no prob!
GoldnSnitch_96 posted 一年多以前
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