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An important issue, so answer please.

I'm not gay, nor lesbian, etc....
Plus, I don't see any wrong with being gay, lesbian, homo 或者 bi! I don't see any right with this either.. Which means that I'm neutral.

But I just have a little question, why each time I say to a girl that I like/love her, she understands me the wrong way? However, my mind is totally pure 由 saying that to her. Precisely Americans (no offense to any of them). I'm female though, and I usually like girls as my best friends, 或者 even as my sisters, not as AHEM!
I like to talk to girls 更多 than talking to guys.
All my group 老友记 is full of girls.
I play with them, having fun together (don't let your mind go to the wrong side please, handle it)..I'm really sick of this. Like imagine it, every time I say to a girl "I like you" she objects strongly and says "I'm not a gay", even though, I'm not either. that happened to me once and I was absolutely embarrassed 由 this. (Happened on Fanpop, 由 the way)

What are your thoughts on this? :/
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it's retarded beyond belief
shadowlover3000 posted 一年多以前
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^ WOW!
ShiningsTar542 posted 一年多以前
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ImAdorkable said:
I'm not a lesbian 或者 bi. Me and two girl 老友记 (two words, not one) say stuff like that, too. Those two are really my only two 老友记 that are girls. I hang out with guys more, cause I hate the drama girls bring. I have like four best 老友记 that are guys, and sometimes I get mistaken for being bisexual for the way I act. It's totally normal if 你 hang out with girls 更多 than guys, 或者 guys 更多 than girls. Just quickly explain to them that 你 aren't lesbian 或者 bi, 你 just meant it in a friendly way. Me and my best guy friend tell eachother we 爱情 eachother a lot, it doesn't change our relationship. Good luck with whatever happens.
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posted 一年多以前 
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I have lots of 老友记 (girls not guys) 'cause I prefer them, but my best friend is one. Only one. And I know her, as well as she does. And she doesn't bring the dramas all right at my face, 'cause I and her don't like this either. Anyway, the girls that I'm talking about I actually don't know very well. And I feel like I 爱情 the way of how one of them think 或者 act, so I tell her "I like you", 你 know the reaction after so.
ShiningsTar542 posted 一年多以前
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Try politely explaining to them that 你 meant it innocently.
ImAdorkable posted 一年多以前
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Probably right. Will see. Thanks. :)
ShiningsTar542 posted 一年多以前
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No problem. :)
ImAdorkable posted 一年多以前
Me_Iz_Here said:
happens to me, really irritating.

just ignore it 或者 tell them to stop.
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posted 一年多以前 
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你 think I have to do so? Well, I won't tell any girl that I like her then ignore her 或者 to tell her to stop, because I like her.. 你 know.
ShiningsTar542 posted 一年多以前
Trainofdoom said:
Aw me, that has happened to me..(us?) too!
If they are not gay and I am not gay then there is no problem with it.

Just follow it up with a "no homo"
hoped this helped me!
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posted 一年多以前 
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=^_^= Thank me. I think I will handle it 下一个 time. I just needed my opinion on that. xD
ShiningsTar542 posted 一年多以前
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My welcome! (?)
Trainofdoom posted 一年多以前
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Or, I'm welcome. XD
ShiningsTar542 posted 一年多以前
Hailie_45 said:
你 kinda hurt me 由 say "Precisely Americans", but the "no offense.." sentence cured that.
Anyway, that happens a lot to me. I actually don't know what to say after then, and yes this so embarrassing, especially when 你 say to her that 你 like her and all she does is "objection".
I have the same reaction ,so I think I can't help out. Sorry.
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posted 一年多以前 
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It's okay! I see most of people think the same.
ShiningsTar542 posted 一年多以前
katy55 said:
u'll certainly have to forgive them. u see because some pplz minds are a little perverteed and also since maybe it might hav that type of enviroment around them thats the first thing that will pop into their heads, other ppl might take it the wrong way so try to ignore it, thats just how life has become these days, 你 hav to watch everything u say otherwise ppl will look at u differently. but anyway, just ignore it.
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posted 一年多以前 
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Cool response. I think 你 are right. Though, I hardly can ignore anything, but I will try. ^^
ShiningsTar542 posted 一年多以前
Sasume said:
It just goes to 显示 你 that some people aren't the smartest...take no offense to that, as long as 你 know what/who 你 are 你 don't have to worry about what other people think. Just make sure it doesn't get out of hand. I have plenty of girl 老友记 and we jokingly say stuff like that. It's like when 你 tell your family 你 爱情 them: it's not a romantic love, a family 爱情 :D. Yeah, I'm American and some people are jerks. But it doesn't have to do with your nationality, I don't call people gay if they're the same gender as me and say "I love/like you" because I believe in having an open mind and it just doesn't bother me. Good luck!
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posted 一年多以前 
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Sorry about holding this all to Americans particularly, I knew I should have 发布 this part, even if it was one my head. And I know it doesn't have anything with nationalities. I meant that all Americans that I talked to myself thought of the same wrong way. Sorry again. ^^ And thanks for answering. I think I'm convinced now.
ShiningsTar542 posted 一年多以前
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I'm glad you're better now :D. It's okay, everyone makes mistakes :D and it seems that the jerks are heard 更多 than the ones with sense...don't 你 agree?
Sasume posted 一年多以前
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Yeah but I'm pretty sure ignorance is a learned skill.
Sasume posted 一年多以前
Jeffersonian said:
For some reason people, Americans precisely (I'm American so nobody freak out) tend to jump to conclusions. That's why I never say in public that I find my 最喜爱的 actress cute (like a little 小狗 not in a lesbian way) because I know if certain people heard they'd take it the wrong way. I think a 流行的 American phrase (or at least one I've heard) that might help 你 is LYLAS (Love 你 Like A Sister). Hope I'm helpful.
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posted 一年多以前 
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Totally true. When I talk to any American I think of an American sentence that doesn't freak them out 或者 think of me the wrong way. Sorry about saying Americans though. *Blushing*.
ShiningsTar542 posted 一年多以前
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It gets annoying when people need 你 to elaborate on everything in order for no conclusions to be jumped to.
Sasume posted 一年多以前
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