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help please! i just 迷失 a really close friend because she found out i cut myself. what do i do?

so i have a friend that we've known eachother sence we were little, and she just recently found out that i cut myself, and doesnt want to "be 老友记 with an 情绪硬核 freak" (her words exactly) what do i do?
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thank 你 guys....the 建议 helps, and ill see if i can find someone to talk to who can help me stop cutting...
swiftfire1 posted 一年多以前
 swiftfire1 posted 一年多以前
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samuraibond005 said:
WTF...Your friend should be helping 你 out...not making things worse.
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posted 一年多以前 
swiddlewiddle said:
1. STOP doing that! I understand people who do that, my best friend used to cut herself and all this just because she wanted 更多 attention and 爱情 from the people around her... 你 need help, try talking to someone who cares about you, idk, 你 gotta have a friend 或者 a family member that will understand 你 或者 a psychologist...

2. I don't think 你 迷失 that much.. A good friend doesn't let 你 down in moments like this, just because you're an 情绪硬核 freak! Screw her, she's not worth caring that much... I mean I understand,
it's hard to let someone 你 know for such a long time go..(I've been there.). But still, she is a false friend, she's just going to hurt 你 更多 and 你 don't deserve such a friend. No one does... :(

Hope it'll be fine :)
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posted 一年多以前 
rapunzeleah123 said:
Look,

I'm really not happy that 你 are cutting yourself (not that I can stop you, because I know that I can't), but 老友记 accept 你 for who 你 are. If she calls 你 a freak because of that, 你 were obviously never true friends.
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posted 一年多以前 
adultswimperson said:
Doing that is only going to get 你 nowhere, the 更多 people she tells about this, your only going to feel nothing but regrets.
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posted 一年多以前 
Alainer said:
why r u doing that? Treat yourself like u treat the people u 爱情 no matter what ur case is. I hav 老友记 who also cut themselves but it doesnt make them stronger 或者 更多 of a person. Im not trying 2 b mean 2 u, I juss wanna make u realize what ur doing is BAD. I suggest that u quit, tell her ur sorry, even tho she shouldve been a better friend about it. good luck with where ever life may take u [:
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posted 一年多以前 
zanesaaomgfan said:
Then she's not a real friend. Real 老友记 would...

would...

help you?
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posted 一年多以前 
Biancadi said:
first off all stop cutting yourself , my sister does that too, so i help her, so get help from a close friend 或者 a family member( a sibling would help and if 你 dont have any then your aunt)and If she calls 你 an 情绪硬核 freak, tell her that your not an 情绪硬核 freak and if she still calls 你 that then shes not a true friend, she just a friend who judges 你 for what they do


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posted 一年多以前 
DandC4evacute said:
i have a friend who used to cut herself. DON'T BE 老友记 WITH HER. she's obviously not a true friend. a true friend would try to help, ok? this girl is obviously not worth trying to get back with. get help from a guidance counselor, a parent, someone 你 know will help you. :)
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posted 一年多以前 
AnimeFan66 said:
I have to agree with the person who answered first- your friend shouldn't be blaming 你 或者 breaking your friendship up. she should at lease have 心 to help you. 你 need to explain what happend and try to figure this out together. if it doesn't work, then just put it all behind you.
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