what would 你 do if 你 saw your friend's boyfriend 接吻 another girl and 你 know if 你 tell her,she is going to think 你 are being jealous 或者 你 are lying????but if 你 do not tell her it is wrong so what do 你 do??
If you're sure that it was her boyfriend and another girl, tell her. She needs to know.
Your friend might get in a state at first and defend him, that's only natural, but if she's a real friend she will believe you, 或者 at least confront with him and hear his side.
But don't hold it in, because you're right, that would be wrong, and your friend deserves to know the truth. Good luck hun! :)
I would tell her regardless of what she might think of me. Whether she chooses to believe me 或者 not is her problem. As far as I'm concerned I've done the right thing.
Ask the other girl if she knows he's going out with my friend, ask the boyfriend what's going on, then tell my friend, if she's a true friend she'll believe me xxx
First of all,get substantial evidence.It will b a real torture for her that she won't know if you're telling the truth.It is risky to do it yourself because if he understands something he may come up with an excuse 或者 blame 你 to your friend for lying.You have to surprise him.So get someone else to do it for who isn't familiar to your friend's boyfriend to learn when and where they meet take pictures and all that stuff.
posted 一年多以前
that was what i thot at first but think it is much better when i do it myself with some evidence!!
well if u know for sure that she is not going to believe 你 then u gotta do some spy work...take pics of them and gather any evidence 你 can.take photos,video tape them 或者 go through their messages at their mobile phones if possible....good luck...