What do 你 think of suffering?
Has the misery 你 have experienced had a positive impact on 你 life?
Some religious people in older times put themselves through hell because they believed that suffering cleansed the soul.
And there are those who have 说 that going through suffering is the only of achieving wisdom and greatness.
I myself personally think there is some truth to these things. When bad things happened to me in the past, i used to think things such as "Why do these pointless hardships have to befall me?"
but now i know that those perils did benefit me.
I don't know what sort of person i would have became if suffering had played no part in it.