what do 你 do when 你 have a broken heart?

wow so sorry to hear that!!.. i would listen to some sad songs, cry let it out, then listen to some death metal, and start to heal 由 relating to the lyrics n get all my anger n aggression out, but it does take me a few days to feel better. again, im sorry! if u need to talk hit me up.

Write. It always helps. Trust me =)

Here these should help and I'm srry 2 here that...
also the link 2 where I found this :D there's lots of helpful stuff on here so take ur time and read threw it if u need help also try talking with ur mom 或者 some other family members I do belive it's good 2 talk with 老友记 but not always with stuff like this cause u nv know who they would tell and I think it just causes 更多 pain,suffering,sorrow,and drama if u poor ur 心 out 2 them and then they tell every1...


Step 1
Acknowledge and accept your feelings of anger, sadness and disappointment over the betrayal.

Step 2
Don't blame yourself for his actions. Remember that 你 can't be responsible for anyone's behavior other than your own.

Step 3
Try to set aside your emotions and look at the situation from an outsider's point of view. What 建议 would 你 give to your friend?

Step 4
Evaluate whether his behavior has permanently destroyed your trust in him and in your relationship. Do 你 believe he won't repeat his actions in the future?

Step 5
Confront your boyfriend and tell him exactly how 你 feel about his actions. Let him know that cheating is not acceptable behavior in your relationship.

Step 6
If 你 feel 你 need to know why he cheated on 你 to obtain closure for yourself, listen to his explanations about his behavior. Remember that listening does not mean 你 condone, agree with 或者 accept his behavior.

Step 7
Don't allow him to manipulate your feelings with sweet words of apology 或者 promises never to cheat on 你 again. Be realistic. Do 你 honestly believe this was a one-time event, 或者 do your instincts tell 你 that he'll probably cheat on 你 again in the future?

Step 8
Ask yourself if 你 would be better off with him 或者 without him. Can 你 continue to enjoy the relationship, knowing about the betrayal?

Step 9
Find a constructive outlet for your emotions of disappointment and anger.

Step 10
Give yourself time to grieve over the betrayal. Whether 你 stay with him 或者 not, forgive him for his actions so 你 can heal and 移动 on with your life.


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small 语录 from other girl(s) that had 2 deal with the pain till they found a way the heal their 心 once again

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the way I look at it if they did it once they'll do it again -.-

srry I think I over did that but just had 2 help the best I could xD

*Wishes u good luck*

awwwwwwww i'm sorry, I just deal with it but that's just me. I would tell u to talk with some of your friends. Theyll be able to help sorry aging

I'm so sorry that happened. If he did that then he obviously doesn't deserve you. As for helping with a broken heart? I'm sorry but I don't really have 建议 for that. Just remember that you're too good for that dirty cheater.

That's what my friend Mr. Smirnoff is for. (:

I'm sorry about your boyfriend, If he cheated on u hes a crazy-poopoo head:) 4 you, just let it all out!!! Cry 4 a little bit, then beat him up a pic of him later!!! (Even him if u want!!!)

-Spi

eat alot of sweets and wach your fav show

What i do is i just spend some alone time but i also spend time with my family and friends. Try to balance it

Awww im so sorry!!!!!!If 你 have a picture of him and a dartboard,put his face on it and aim for the nose :).Also,get some sugar and watch tv,that always helps,or take a nap(what i do XD).

你 shouldnt come to me for that kind of advice, i...im a cutter...last time my heat was broken i took a 刀 to my wrist and i dont want 你 doing the same to yourself!If 你 feel youself heading down that same path, dont follow through, TALK TO SOMEONE!

Sorry to hear that happened to you.:( Just remember that if he didn't know just how great 你 were, chances are he definitely doesn't deserve you. Also a best friend should know that 你 liked him! Personally I like to talk it out with my 老友记 and try to do things that I like to take my mind off of it. Hope this helps. :)

I'm so sorry to hear that, just try to cry it out and maybe make up a story in which something bad happens to them. When I liked this guy but he liked another girl my mom made up a story that I was an adult and a famous 作者 as well has having a hot Australian husband and I came back to my hometown for a book signing, the guy I used to like is there with the girl he likes and she was fat and grumpy. Maybe if 你 make up a story like that it will make 你 feel better.

I'm not very good with giving advise, but I think 你 should 移动 on - that's what I did when I came back from 万圣节前夕 break and the flu to find my crush was dating some girl I didn't like - Talk to some 老友记 about it, watch TV - it's what I do when I'm depressed.

awww i'm sorry. The best thing i can tell u is surround yourself 由 your friends, listen to 音乐 relate to it and in a couple of weeks 你 might get over it.

What do I do? I fix it with tape. Why?

awwwwwwww D: im really sorry to hear that........my advice: try talking to your 老友记 about it, 或者 talk to your mom(thats what i would do) and 你 could also watch some tv to help forget about him
um....thats really all the 建议 i could give seeing that i never had a boyfriend

i pretty much get use to it pretty quickly all i do is eat a pop tart and cry for a few secs then im good now look at this :P

I'm so sorry :(
The same thing happened to me last year, & i know how much it hurts, but you've got to 移动 on. Any guy & any "friend" who would ever do that to u isn't worth it. You'll find the perfect guy, one who actually deserves u, one day. I promise. While your waiting for him, be good to yourself. &, of corse, looking at the hottest guy in the world dosen't hurt, either :)

Well i eat ALOT but dont do dat it can make u fat but im not fat i stopped b4 that happened

look up the song CheaterCheaterBestFriendEater 由 Never Shout Never on youtube. iit might help. maybe. and if not draw a whole bunch of pics of him falling off a cliff 或者 getting eaten 由 sharks 或者 getting some sort of injuries. that always helps me

Go to the ER 或者 die.

I try to do something mean to him.

I very so to hear that I hope 你 feel better.

When I have a broken 心 I will listen to sad 音乐 and try to let out all my feels and just think. In a place alone 由 my self so i can just think and to myself with out anyone bugging me. When I feel better I start listening to happier 音乐 and sing along I will also talk to my 老友记 to make me laugh and smile (suround your self with good friends). And I will wriet out my feels sometimes. I will wriet it in my dairy. XD
some people say that 浓情巧克力 helps -_- i think it does. When I was sad about my bf my friend John told me to eat 浓情巧克力 and ice cream and watch tv 或者 listen to music...lol

like I 说 I hope 你 feel better <3